Your absence.

If your absence doesn’t affect them, your presence never mattered.

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  1. Oh, their absence most definitely affects me! What I am wondering is, does my presence NOT affect them! It appears that my presence doesn’t ‘MATTER’ to them in any way!

    1. I know what you mean. They mean so much to us, but they treat us like we are not even there sometimes. If he acts this way when I’m around, I wonder what he’s like when I’m not. I think I’ve reached my breaking point. But how can I walk away when I love him so much? Hope you have better luck than me. At least one of us deserves happiness.

  2. Sandra, I sure agree it looks that way, but I think we have an unseen affect. In any case, if they don’t value the Truth of what we’ve brought into their lives, they’re a very different people from us, “cut from different cloth”, with skewed priorities. There is little we can do to reach them, and it seems they have no “ears to hear.”

    1. Maybe they do need to lose us before they learn to value our presence. But I just can’t bring myself to do it. I walked away once and in the end, I came back again. I’m just tiered of crying.

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