No matter how bad it hurts or how bad you feel, it’s time to stop thinking about that person who played with your feelings, who took your love for granted, who never appreciated your care, who wasn’t contented with what you could give him or her. You can’t stay at that hurtful place anymore. You can’t keep shedding tears over someone who doesn’t deserve the love you gave. You can’t keep feeling sorry for yourself and thinking if only you did more. You can’t make them want the relationship because if they wanted they wouldn’t have let go of you. You deserve better now. You deserve someone who appreciates you and who won’t play with your delicate heart.. Just like a cut on your hand will take time to heal, your broken heart needs time to heal as well. That’s not the end of your life. You will get over that pain you’re having right now and one day you’ll be happy again.
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Thank you for sending this message today. The timing is perfect. I had the love of my life 20 years ago and she left me for another man. That hurt was so deep and frankly never healed. I had her for 6 months and we were going strong and then out of nowhere she stopped taking my calls. She would not talk with me and when I found out that she was seeing another Man my world fell apart. She married this man but divorced him about 10 years later. Last year she came back into my life out of the blue. She saw a Facebook post about the open heart surgery I had and she reached out to me. All those feelings for her came rushing back in a fury. She lived in Wisconsin and I lived in Illinois. We started to communicate daily, each morning I would text her and she would text back. We shared so many emails updating each other on our lives. We are both single so I thought I had another chance. In the back of my mind I wondered why she would only communicate through emails or texts no phone calls ever. This was getting hot and heavy again as we reminisced about the great times we had. We also shared the most intimate of thoughts and desires. I really believed we would soon be together. After 8 months of this I asked her to see me and she emailed me back “LOL that would be awkward”. I asked what she meant and she responded “my new boyfriend would not like that. Once again my heart was torn out by her. I want so much to tell her this but I refuse to give her that satisfaction. I also know that there is a small part of me that wants her back. The logical side of me has taken over and I have decided that she has hurt me enough. I have deleted every email we shared and every text message. I deserve better, I am a good man, with a lot to give and at 56 I also realize that I may never find someone. I okay being alone but someday I hope to find someone I can share my life with but they need to give as good as they get. I am a hopeless romantic.
Your not alone, Tom Beech. Don’t ever give up on love. You stay strong and you’ll find her when your not lookking. A good heart is few in this world but you betcha she is out there.