You are not a back-up plan. You are worth more than someone’s second choice. You can’t force yourself to stop caring for someone, but you can tell yourself that you deserve better. Never settle to be someone’s second best. Raise your standards and choose to be with someone who will treat you with the same respect and consideration you would treat them. You can’t expect to be someone else’s priority if you aren’t your own.
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If you in a really nice relation with your boyfriend who has some children from his first marriage, you will be the second important person in his life AFTER his children!! nothing is so important as his own children…
He has successfully hurt my heart deeply..