When you start to know someone.

When you start to know someone, all their physical characteristics start to disappear. You begin to dwell in their energy, recognize the scent of their skin. You see only the essence of the person, not the shell. That’s why you can’t fall in love with beauty. You can lust after it, be infatuated by it, want to own it. You can love it with your eyes and your body but not your heart. And that’s why, when you really connect with a person’s inner self, any physical imperfections disappear, become irrelevant.
Lisa Unger

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  1. True, I fall in love more not because of the outr beauty of a person but because of the inner beauty that she possess. I learned so much from her and made me more strength to face any obstacles in my life.

  2. What’s more is that we are ALL connected at the heart, boundaries are what we choose to put up if we do, because we were already pre destined to be together with everyone. All we need in life is to learn not to place any boundaries in order to allow ourselves to love, which we are already naturally capable of doing. The person or people you happen to get closer with are simply doing the same, simply not placing any boundaries and allowing themselves to purely love back. People who don’t do it right, will one day when they’re ready to, in the meantime lets remember to have a pure heart to enjoy the mysteries of loving your close partner and loving everyone.


  3. Where we should not fall in love with beauty, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder I believe we fall in love with both. For instance someone other than yourself may not see or agree with or think the one you choose is attractive but you do. Just ad the outer self can fade away so can the inter part. This leave me to ask how can anybody find that one, we all changes both outward and inside. As for excepting those imperfect habits or over looking them in my opinion paying attention to every thing that’s revel to us then make our choices still no guarantee it will last.

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