We think it’s too hard to let go.


When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back. There comes a point when you have to let go and stop trying with some people. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll find a way to put you there. Sometimes you just need to let go and accept the fact that they don’t care for you the way you care for them. Let them leave your life quietly. Letting go is oftentimes easier than holding on. We think it’s too hard to let go, until we actually do. Then we ask ourselves, “Why didn’t I do this sooner?”

~Marc & Angel Hack

 

 

 

Source: http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/04/02/10-signs-its-time-to-let-go/

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16 Comments

  1. “Letting Go” wow I needed to read your post I had to et go of all of my siblings. The hardest one was my sister that is 16months older than me growing up when you would see me you would see my sister. But for about the past 5yrs.She was very toxic to me she played with my heart saying one day “I love you” then the very next day she would email me saying “I need space from you probably 2weeks” I gave her so many chances then at the time I was seeing a Counselor and she said “you need to let go of her she is toxic to you. I said exactly I will not let her in to once again hurt my heart. And with the help of God I have not talked to her in anyway email telephone letter’s she has tried very hard to get me back, do not get me wrong it has been one of the hardest Letting go I ever had to do I cried at times, sometimes it was 2steps forward and 3steps back. It has been 8months since I let her go and I have not responded. I think of her but not as often as I used to. So at sometime in our life we need to let someone go. Sometimes I wonder how she is doing.1 thing I know for sure is that she is communicating with my 2older sisters vey dysfunctional people I let go of them yrs. ago without any tears they still drink a lot and they never loved me because since I was the baby they have been jealous of me because I got away with things they would never have gotten away with I could not help my Birth order. I have to tell you they were even jealous of my fingernails can you believe that. I went into hard core Therapy when I was 20yrs.old I was raised in a very, very dysfunctional home getting abused in everyway you can think of and I anted to know how 1st to love myself so I could love other people and I knew I wanted kids and needed to know how to raise them without hitting them and I never did. To make a longer story shot I went through Therapy for 16yrs.Yep 16yrs.So thank You for your post I needed to read your post. Thank You, Gloria P.S.am going to write a book I have started getting my materials together.

  2. So true but so difficult to do. I am in so much pain but my heart just would not let go. I know he doesn’t want me anymore but I just can’t move on.

  3. True! Acceptation its most valuable lesson in life.
    Some times we learn and wish we could get back in time to give our very best to someone we have lost .
    Ironically we become who we wanted to be before we lost what we loved

  4. I was in a very unhappy marriage for. 16 yrs cause I couldn’t let go. It left more scars. I am free now it is such a blessing. It truly makes you question as to why I did not leave sooner.

  5. This is particularly relevant to me this holiday season. With a divorce, two toddlers, so fresh still….it is probably the last holidays where we will spend a lot of time together, simply because the children are so young. I don’t want time to move forward. Even if I stay stuck, a part of me wants that with my family. I pray for the faith and courage to move forward, because she clearly has.

  6. This is something that many of us know in our hearts, yet it is so hard to accept and move on. Thanks for this reminder. It came at a perfect time in my life.

  7. Perfect Timing
    I haven’t completely closed the door to the 14yrs of the
    Love Roller Coaster we haven’t seen each other since
    July 3rd it tore my Soul My Heart My Trust all at the same time!!!
    We talk sometimes but the more we talk the more I ask myself WHY DID I GO THRU THIS SO MANY YEARS????? I no I deserve Better I just wouldn’t listen to my closest family members. But if I didn’t know then….I KNOW NOW😉

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