Lessons Learned in Life

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   Ananya August 7, 2015 Reply

   At first place Its really tough to forgive…………..

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   Sherrie August 7, 2015 Reply

   I think it so true about that. Just walked out of a 27 years of marriage on aug.1 2015. I left and i choose to live with some peace joy and kindness. I am not holding any grudges. I just am moving on. I have lived many year being controlled by a verbally,emotionally,financially abusive. Been threatened to be hit, told to get out of his house many times more than i can count. The final straw was when he challenged me to a fight cause i so bad ass he wanted to see how bad ass i was. So i told him i was leaving and i would show him how bad ass i was without throwing a punch. I packed my stuff and moved me and my kids in with my mom till i could find a place.i am filing for legal aid to start my divorce and i am not looking back even though he wants me to come back and i tell him no way. I will not put up with that no longer but i dont have to forgive because it taught me i have to stand up for myself and finally stop the cycle that he really has no problem dishing out.i really look forward to some peace and happiness one step at a time. It is so nice not to be screamed at 5 or 6 in the mornings and a daily list of why i am so bad of a person etc. Things he created in his mind. Will not miss the angry environment and getting to enjoy life again without being micromanged. I look for better horizons with beauty and happiness surounding me.

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     Angie August 7, 2015 Reply

     I know how that is…just getting out of a the same thing.starting over ducks but it’s better then being w a miserable person. Surrounding myself w good people something he tried to take away from me so I couldn’t see I was always a good person…just not with him.