Those Top 37 Things You’ll Regret When You’re Old.


Those Top 37 Things You’ll Regret When You’re Old.

1. Not traveling when you had the chance.

Traveling becomes infinitely harder the older you get, especially if you have a family and need to pay the way for three-plus people instead of just yourself.

2. Not learning another language.

You’ll kick yourself when you realize you took three years of language in high school and remember none of it.

3. Staying in a bad relationship.

No one who ever gets out of a bad relationship looks back without wishing they made the move sooner.

4. Forgoing sunscreen.

Wrinkles, moles, and skin cancer can largely be avoided if you protect yourself.

5. Missing the chance to see your favorite musicians.

“Nah, dude, I’ll catch Nirvana next time they come through town.” Facepalm.

6. Being scared to do things.

Looking back you’ll think, What was I so afraid of?

7. Failing to make physical fitness a priority.

Too many of us spend the physical peak of our lives on the couch. When you hit 40, 50, 60, and beyond, you’ll dream of what you could have done.

8. Letting yourself be defined by gender roles.

Few things are as sad as an old person saying, “Well, it just wasn’t done back then.”

9. Not quitting a terrible job.

Look, you gotta pay the bills. But if you don’t make a plan to improve your situation, you might wake up one day having spent 40 years in hell.

10. Not trying harder in school.

It’s not just that your grades play a role in determining where you end up in life. Eventually you’ll realize how neat it was to get to spend all day learning, and wish you’d paid more attention.

11. Not realizing how beautiful you were.

Too many of us spend our youth unhappy with the way we look, but the reality is, that’s when we’re our most beautiful.

12. Being afraid to say “I love you.”

When you’re old, you won’t care if your love wasn’t returned — only that you made it known how you felt.

13. Not listening to your parents’ advice.

You don’t want to hear it when you’re young, but the infuriating truth is that most of what your parents say about life is true.

14. Spending your youth self-absorbed.

You’ll be embarrassed about it, frankly.

15. Caring too much about what other people think.

In 20 years you won’t give a darn about any of those people you once worried so much about.

16. Supporting others’ dreams over your own.

Supporting others is a beautiful thing, but not when it means you never get to shine.

17. Not moving on fast enough.

Old people look back at the long periods spent picking themselves off the ground as nothing but wasted time.

18. Holding grudges, especially with those you love.

What’s the point of re-living the anger over and over?

19. Not standing up for yourself.

Old people don’t take sh*t from anyone. Neither should you.

20. Not volunteering enough.

OK, so you probably won’t regret not volunteering Hunger Games style, but nearing the end of one’s life without having helped to make the world a better place is a great source of sadness for many.

21. Neglecting your teeth.

Neglecting your teeth.

Brush. Floss. Get regular checkups. It will all seem so maddeningly easy when you have dentures.

22. Missing the chance to ask your grandparents questions before they die.

Most of us realize too late what an awesome resource grandparents are. They can explain everything you’ll ever wonder about where you came from, but only if you ask them in time.

23. Working too much.

No one looks back from their deathbed and wishes they spent more time at the office, but they do wish they spent more time with family, friends, and hobbies.

24. Not learning how to cook one awesome meal.

Knowing one drool-worthy meal will make all those dinner parties and celebrations that much more special.

25. Not stopping enough to appreciate the moment.

Young people are constantly on the go, but stopping to take it all in now and again is a good thing.

26. Failing to finish what you start.

Failing to finish what you start.

“I had big dreams of becoming a nurse. I even signed up for the classes, but then…”

27. Never mastering one awesome party trick.

You will go to hundreds, if not thousands, of parties in your life. Wouldn’t it be cool to be the life of them all?

28. Letting yourself be defined by cultural expectations.

Letting yourself be defined by cultural expectations.

Don’t let them tell you, “We don’t do that.”

29. Refusing to let friendships run their course.

People grow apart. Clinging to what was, instead of acknowledging that things have changed, can be a source of ongoing agitation and sadness.

30. Not playing with your kids enough.

When you’re old, you’ll realize your kid went from wanting to play with you to wanting you out of their room in the blink of an eye.

31. Never taking a big risk (especially in love).

Knowing that you took a leap of faith at least once — even if you fell flat on your face — will be a great comfort when you’re old.

32. Not taking the time to develop contacts and network.

Networking may seem like a bunch of crap when you’re young, but later on it becomes clear that it’s how so many jobs are won.

33. Worrying too much.

As Tom Petty sang, “Most things I worry about never happen anyway.”

34. Getting caught up in needless drama.

Who needs it?

35. Not spending enough time with loved ones.

Not spending enough time with loved ones.

Our time with our loved ones is finite. Make it count.

36. Never performing in front of others.

This isn’t a regret for everyone, but many elderly people wish they knew — just once — what it was like to stand in front of a crowd and show off their talents.

37. Not being grateful sooner.

 

It can be hard to see in the beginning, but eventually it becomes clear that every moment on this earth — from the mundane to the amazing — is a gift that we’re all so incredibly lucky to share.

 

 

 

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39 Comments

    1. Velvettazz you are insulted because you are old and did none of the items on the list. How sad for you.

  1. I appreciate this article. I think humor/humour helps ‘living’ thru life at any age. Shared your article and ‘posted’ my own take to my numbers.
    ~~^-^~~ Strangely, I still daydream of a life where I could afford a dental plan. So! #21, eh? And #36, yep. Definately, definately #36 *I’ll floss out the rest with any future regrets.* My oldest joke, “With my luck, when my ship finally does come in … I’ll be at the airport.” ~~^-^~~ – MC

  2. For the most part, this article appears to have the aithours regrets. Cont find any of these to be regrets.

  3. Networking?? Becoming an actress? this sounds like my old self-absorbed boss……sleazy bitch

  4. I believe the writer was trying to make a point. I think the moral of the story is that we learn from the mistakes we made. And is there anything that we can still do before Our time is up. At least that’s the way I see it. You can either read it as the glass is half empty or the glass is half-full.

  5. Good list but number 7 should be cut. I know several 60+ year old women who have amazing, toned bodies and are more physically fit than I was in high school and I was an serious athlete. They run 5 miles a day and mix in biking/barre and pilates for those curious how. I envy their fitness level. Also, most seniors (and I equate that to people over the age of 75) think 40 is young. Many 40+ year olds are in the best shape of their lives. Also not sure about #27. Not everyone is a party-goer. Clearly the author isn’t an “older” person but some nice points made.

  6. at almost 83 I regret very little but I wish I’d stayed younger longer instead of being in such a hurry to be ‘grown up!” we grow too soon old & too late smart is a good old Pennsylvania saying…believe you me It’s right on…

  7. not when we set too many goals in life.but the foremost of all is the setting of future of your kids.if accomplished then all those mentioned above would be a bonus

  8. If climate change is something you say you care about, then jumping on an airplane so you can visit another continent is a contradiction. Travel feeds the human appetite for novelty — but you can do that in your own hometown, just work at it.

  9. I am single now since my husband has died and I want to do some of the things and I know I will.. because I can Life is for the living and on I will go flying high with God as my leader.

  10. @Dede I think the point is if you don’t place an emphasis on fitness when you are young it will be near impossible to do it when you are old. I’d be willing to bet most of those you cite who are in amazing shape for their age at over 60 years old weren’t couch potatoes in their twenties and thirties. What they are doing now is a continuation of habits started when they were young.

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