A Good Relationship is when two people accept each other’s past, support each other’s present, and love each other enough to encourage each other’s future. So don’t rush love. Find a partner who encourages you to grow, who won’t cling to you, who will let you go out into the world and trust that you will come back. This is what true love is all about.
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These truely inspire me. Things are really rough in my life, and overcoming everything being alone…even though I have a husband is even worse. I have a daughter who is 18. She tried to take her life a month ago and I have nobody to talk to. I’m not looking for anyone to talk to. Only wish my husband cared like he used to. He is my heart, but if I don’t have his anymore, I want to know. Life is so short, and my daughter needs me. I only wish I could find out what he does all the time on his phone, not having to pay because I have no credit card. I need SURE FACTS before I make such a life changing experience. My daughter is in no shape for us to up and leave, just for us to come back. I’m so sad. This site helps life me up so much. Thanks for everything. God Bless.
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What about taking into account that a “relationship” is about relating to one another. Being thoughtful and loving as each grows and delvelops. About keeping this relating bond tight and interactive.
Just saying its not true love when ALL aspects of a relationship aren’t considered.
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this is love!! hope I will live it
.. i jus love your page and ur thoughts… but wht if u love someone so truely n not willing to find someone else… but still the person always is upset abt ur past and jus makes feel u so bad and doesnt trust u.. time and again and sees ur every act so suspiciously….
And if remnents of past relationships are posted on kitchen wall where not optional to look at everyday…is this reasonable? Inspirational quotes from ex girlfriend with notes to him ? I Asked…didn’t demand they be moved to a memorabilia box and this was reason to explode with anger?DISCARDING ME …like trash..Many of those quotes are about being kind, because others are struggling etc….clearly he was reading the quotes not to live them but to live in past with focus on old flame who sent them.Mask has been removed…this is not love…no need to accept past this way in my opinion it is selfish and mean.
Some partners are way to focused on past.To respect a current relationship, it is the right thing to do to respect new partner by putting memorabilia in a memory box. Of course accept the past..but don’t put up with nonsense..that is not love.
I guess everyone’s idea of accepting past is different.Sometimes non loving things are done to end relationships by partners who truly are more focused on their past..
Gosh! I love every words you said, it triggers in my heart and makes me teary realizing there are like you who gives moral support and inspiration in life to those feeling neglected and alone… Thank you and more power!
we’ve learned from our past.it has prepared us to something we ought to experience. taking it as a challenge to face tomorrow with its bigger and greater lessons to know later.
Your Quotes Are Very Good Lessons to Learn in this Life.
I absolutely agree with two of the people above who commented on some people who seem way too focused on talking about their past constantly. It makes you feel like they are unhappy with where they are at the present time with you, otherwise why do they feel the need to constantly mention old times, past loves, etc.?
What about people talking about past betrayal in the relationship? There is still love but sometimes forgetting is pretty hard to find.
Betrayal, probably the hardest lesson I’ve ever had to deal with. I’ve been betrayed and Have betrayed. Deep seeded trust issues it brings to surface.If its worth it to you, you forgive. Never forget the hurt, but if your love is stronger than the hurt, you can move on together and know that you two can make it through anything. Trust can literally be destroyed instantaneously. You must decide if you are willing to start from square one and try again..Only for you and partner to decide this.