Be strong and walk away.

Don’t let anyone bring you down so low as to hate them. Release them from the hold they have on you and continue on with peace in your heart. Life is short and is not worth wasting your time trying to figure people out or prove anything to them. The only person you have to prove anything to is yourself. Strive to be the best person you can possibly be, be strong, and walk away. Holding on to bitterness and anger will only hinder your happiness. Your life is much too precious to spend another minute worrying about someone that doesn’t bring you happiness. Say goodbye and wish them well. After all, they’ve made you a stronger person. They’ll see the light someday.

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  1. Thank you, seeing the light for the last couple years, her actions in the lasy month, proved what my gut said for the last 2 years, but, at least i gave it my best shot.

    And if this was really love when i met her in 2013.. then its up to her to prove that she does love me and show me how?

    In the meantmeantime, we stay broken up, as your quote says, im a better, stronger, wiser gal, as my heart and soul heals.

    If she comes back, it was meant to be, if not then that’s ok.. it was never meant to be.

    I have survived worse, this roo will pass.


    1. Oh commenter Debbie…you are still….waiting for that person to ask you for some reconciliation…..pray…..and wish you two the best….

  2. You may be right Brigitte, and your words are wise, but they are powerless against love. I can not imagine that I can let go. Just reading this text hurts. What was this all about than? Did I make so many faults they I do not fit anymore? Or was it just a game? I want to know this. She can let me drop and disconnect all connections. Then it is consistent, my heart broken and I can watch how to heal it. I do not let myself prescribe what I have to do. it does not work either.

    1. Hmmm..commenter m, you are still hurting….what connection do you wish her to disconnect?

      Was the indifference between you and your love so irreconcileable? I wish things between you guyz be fixed….better to have a peaceful world….with loving people all over…..

  3. Sometimes people come into our lives for a season and that’s completely okay. It’s a part of life. People will come in and out of our lives to teach us lessons or as blessings. Let go of what no longer is to make space for greater things in life. Trust and have faith 🙂

    1. Ok commenter Missing you…am letting you go (as if I know you)…to make space for greater things in life…

      1. Arlene thank you for your response. I believe you misinterpreted my statement. I meant let go of individuals we know on a deeper level (people we actually know). Those who don’t wish to be apart of our lives. If they choose to distance themselves for reasons unknown we can only love them from afar and wish them well.

        1. No, commenter Missing you…I do not misinterpret your message…my message of letting go are for people we know….to give space for better life…

          In this page, we can always state some other names hence we really do not know each other…(except in my case- I state my true name…my apology for having created some miscommunication between us…just for some figure of speech.alike)…

  4. Thank you ARLENE, I wish nothing more than things can be fixed. Well not things, but feelings.Because it is not about something real happened. It‘s my fault to mix virtuel world with real world. And yes I‘m quite filled with bitterness. Because I gave a lot, and she knows. She knew all the time everything and made a lesson for me. This is what you mean commenter missing you, or? Well She definetly Chose distance, and your comment to love her from far, is a thing you maybe practice with lots of person. But I speak of a sort of love,that is unique in intense and dimension. This love I need to have in real live directly by my side or not at all. But perhaps this is the point, that you never felt this kind of my real love. I wonder than, why there are feelings of jealousy? This does not fit for a love from afar. But I stop know,I do not want to spread out my bitterness…I‘m glad you accepted me and were always nice….wish you all a nice weekend.

    1. I am speaking only from my personal experience. I am in love with someone who told me he loves me but he chooses to be away from me. I too felt this intense connection with him as you have said. What we have is different and was a soulmate connection. I didnt give up as you may have thought…I have told him many times how I felt and he would only push me further away and continuously reject me. What more can I do if he chooses to do that????? Even after everything..all this hurt I still love him unconditionally. And that is true love. Not conditional. What more can I do if someone doesnt want to be apart of my life? Again, I am not suggesting for others to love from afar I was speaking of my situation only. Sorry.

      1. Likewise commenter Missing you…I can relate much….there is no violation in that…just take care of your heart always…..that feeling makes your soul happy…..

        1. of course you are speaking only for yourself commenter Missing you. Follow your heart, only you can decide your way. Sometimes I thing we are all just too sensitiv and twist situations in completely wrong sights. Everybody feels hurted but nobody hurts…hmm,something wrong? I feel hurted in every corner I look…well people I do not know and do not love I do not care…they can make me an´s up to them treating other people…but I really need to stop thinking things are meant always in a worse aim.

  5. This is so true. I had to realize this after my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years abruptly broke up with me. He promised he would marry me. My daughter’s and I were devastated. Then he wanted to remain friends. I tried but just couldn’t. It hurt too much to go backwards. You can’t go backwards in an emotional relationship. He was still acting like we were a couple by wanting to hug and kiss and express affection. It confused me. I felt used. Thank God no sex was involved but I still felt like he was holding on to me in case he was wrong. It’s like he wasn’t sure of what he did. I think that’s because our pastor counselled him and suggested we break up. Finally, when he took me out for a birthday dinner 6 months later, I let go. I told him I didn’t want to be in his life anymore. I came to the conclusion that if he wants me he’ll come back to me. I told him if God wants us together to let God do it. So that was it. I felt so free! He never came back to me. He is now dating the Pastor’s daughter. I truly believe it’s all due to the Pastor’s counselling. He convinced him to dump me. So, I had to leave the church. I am so much happier now. Letting go of someone that doesn’t want you is a wonderful feeling. Why would I want to be with someone that doesn’t want me anyway? I settled with the fact that since he didn’t come back to me then he obviously didn’t want me. The hurt somewhat still remains but is slowly diminishing. Time and God help to heal the hurt. It’s time to move on. I’m so happy I did!

  6. Nice weekend too commenter m…so nice to know that you have the desire to fix some feelings that need to be attended to…

    Real and virtual world…yes- with the IT generation- there adds a little confusion…but as what I have observed commenter m, virtual communication still affects the emotional aspect to us human beings…

    I may not understand so much the details and truth commenter m of your state but it seems you feel intense love to someone afar thru the virtual world….likewise commenter m….but no regrets…we learned from it…the mmemories are worth cherishing……for life…

    1. Thank you so much ARLENE, you helped me so much through a long time. I´m very sorry that I createed so much confusion, with using names, writing lots of faults in english and have problems in understanding. I need to practise my foreign languages! I think a lot got lost, but I also learnt something. ” virtual communication still affects the emotional aspect to us human beings…” you mean it is important, right? Yes, you are right it give me a lot of creativ exchange I do not miss and has a big value. But on emotional side ( loving someone so much) it does not work for me.It is just an agony and paralyze me completely. And no, I do not feel intense love through virtual world. Or perhaps yes, it depends how you define it. I love a person in real world. But at the moment there is only contact through virtual world…so I had no choice as follow in virtual world and there I get her known better, loved her even more, complicated everything, and now as power is nearly finished there must be a change for not ruining our lifes. If memories are worth cherishing, I cannot say, because I do not know where my journey goes to. I have to life each day by his own in present and I will see waht future brings….have a nice sunday

      1. Ok commenter m…my honor and pleasure to see you in some posts…I cannot help comment because I like several posts which fit me….be strong and walk away if needed…for peace purposes..welcome if I may have helped you much..maybe in my own simple yet sincere way of responding to a person’s.commenter’s post..

        That is your right and freedom to use many names in this page, we are not obliged to use only one…not even required to use the true name…on my part, I prefer to use my true name..

        Ok whatever commenter m, you may not have an intense virtual feeling for someone but maybe you just have the fondness of following that person or chat with him share some shallow yet relevant chats…go- as long as it helps you see the world a better place to live in…

  7. thank you ARLENE, for peace purpose? There is only pain if I walk away from her and there is peace…well there are normal problems with family, but I´m in peace with everybody…

    1. hmmm..there is pain because you love the person…if there occurred walking away- definitely there is a reason
      .there are reasons…

      Peace is priceless…

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