I’m sorry but I feel that describes a weak person. Strong people keep pushing ahead in spite of adversities. I also have had experiences with people where they caused their own “unwanted-ness” by their words and actions. Who wants to be around a person who is constantly negative? A strong person, especially one in a relationship, will work to determine the cause of the issue (the reason they feel unwanted) and then work to come to an understanding with the other person(s).
@ Karen: I partially agree with you! If you try, and try, and try, and keep on trying harder, but still receive the same treatment from that person, who seems to be interested, but is really playing games somehow, and not being totally honest with you ….what is a person to do??? As I said in my first comment, I am not a mind reader, and in order for ANY relationship to work ….. whether it be friends, girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife, son, daughter ….the list goes on & on …… You MUST be HONEST with each other! And, TRUST is also EXTREMELY important! In the case of family, we really don’t have much of a choice …. that’s what God gave us! Still, it doesn’t mean we have to ‘accept’ any disrespect from them either!
I really like that one, kind of fits my situation right now
I did exactly that 9 months ago when my brother used profanity to me..I hung up the phone & walked away..I have had no regrets…
YUP! I SURELY don’t play games! And, I AM NOT a mind reader! If you can’t be STRAIGHT UP, and 100% honest with me, we have NOTHING!
I’m sorry but I feel that describes a weak person. Strong people keep pushing ahead in spite of adversities. I also have had experiences with people where they caused their own “unwanted-ness” by their words and actions. Who wants to be around a person who is constantly negative? A strong person, especially one in a relationship, will work to determine the cause of the issue (the reason they feel unwanted) and then work to come to an understanding with the other person(s).
Agree 100%. A negative mind leads to a negative life
@ Karen: I partially agree with you! If you try, and try, and try, and keep on trying harder, but still receive the same treatment from that person, who seems to be interested, but is really playing games somehow, and not being totally honest with you ….what is a person to do??? As I said in my first comment, I am not a mind reader, and in order for ANY relationship to work ….. whether it be friends, girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife, son, daughter ….the list goes on & on …… You MUST be HONEST with each other! And, TRUST is also EXTREMELY important! In the case of family, we really don’t have much of a choice …. that’s what God gave us! Still, it doesn’t mean we have to ‘accept’ any disrespect from them either!
JUST BE HONEST! Thank you!