To encourage you to keep going.
To remind you to be strong.

Published on June 30, 2019 in Blog1, Picture Quotes, Revive
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She’s Letting You Go Because You Don’t Deserve Her Anymore

 

A lot of guys seem not to understand why it is that the beautiful, capable, independent women they love and lose decide to end things with them. Time and time again, I’ve seen men spouting the same tired old excuses to caress their egos and make themselves feel better. ‘She’s crazy’, or ‘Her expectations are too high’. 
This isn’t even remotely close to the truth. Allow me to spell it out for you:
She’s done with you because you just don’t deserve her anymore.

She put up with your behaviour long enough. She gave you chance after chance to give her what she wants, what she needs. She gave you all the time, energy, and effort that she possibly could, and what did she get in return?
The bare minimum. As little effort as you thought you could get away with putting in.
You don’t deserve her jokes. You don’t deserve her laugh. You don’t deserve her tears, or her words, or her touch, or her love, or her heart. You don’t deserve her at all.
She could have been your Queen. She could have given you the world, if only you’d opened your arms to her like she did to you. She loved you. She loved you with a purity, a tender genuine feeling of deep affection for all of the things she once thought she saw in you. 
But no more. Those days are over now.
You wasted every shot you got. You squandered chance after chance to be there for her, to be the man she needed you to be. All she got from you was empty promises and poor excuses. She’s letting you go because she’s tired of the mistakes, of the lies, of the half-hearted apologies.
She tried her best to make things work. She gave you her all, but it was never enough. After all, relationships are a team sport, but there was only ever one person batting in yours.
She’s sick of it. She’s tired. She’s been worn down emotionally by the toll your relationship took on her. She spent too long waiting for you to look at her with those same loving eyes that she used to fix on you. 
Somewhere along the way, she fell out of touch with who she was. She spent so long trying to make you happy that she neglected her own individuality. Well, no more. She’s going to reclaim the life she’s put second for so long. She’s going to start putting herself first for once, making herself her number one priority. 
She doesn’t need you anymore, because she’s realized that she never did.
She doesn’t hate you. She doesn’t hold a grudge. She’s not trying get revenge. She just doesn’t love you anymore. There’s no place left for you in her life, and that’s okay. She wishes you all the best.
So when you lie awake at night, thinking about what could have been, know that she wasn’t crazy. She wasn’t unfair. It was you who lost out on the greatest thing that ever happened to you, because you were too blind to know what you had when you had it.
You don’t deserve her anymore, so she’s moving on.

Written by Maverick, Staff writer at Lessons Learned In Life Inc. ©


9 Comments

  1. Hope July 2, 2019 Reply

    True. I m really done with everyone, seen a great life.

    I need a new fresh start, a new birth in someone’s womb, where I am sure I won’t suffer any of wats gone with me.

    I need to be born again. And live every moment I missed this birth for no fault I did.

    I m happy contended enough now. But nothing more left here. Shitbir reward all I got is too much to jold.

    It’s time to wrap up the show with contentment.
    But hope that I will get my piece next…

  2. Hope July 2, 2019 Reply

    True. I m really done with everyone, seen a great life.

    I need a new fresh start, a new birth in someone’s womb, where I am sure I won’t suffer any of wats gone with me.

    I need to be born again. And live every moment I missed this birth for no fault I did.

    I m happy contended enough now. But nothing more left here. Shit or reward all I got is too much to hold.

    It’s time to wrap up the show with contentment.
    But also hope that I will get my piece next…

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      Brigitte July 2, 2019 Reply

      Try to remember this quote Hope: ‘Every morning we are born again. What we do today (with the day) is what matters most.’ Buddha —

  3. Natali July 2, 2019 Reply

    She is letting you go? I am really surprised to hear that!

  4. Natalie July 3, 2019 Reply

    Love this quote…. very, very empowering to be a female, especially when I read fantastic quotes like this!!!

    • Natali July 3, 2019 Reply

      Extremely week men tend to be a Pet for these kinds of females who want to have a Pet in the shape of a human!

      But the funny thing is that these creatures who claim to be ‘strong ‘, already have their Animal Pets ( a dog or two ), but still want another pet who looks like a human being but acts and behaves like an Animal.
      Sit, Get up, Go, F$$ me, and then the guy does and wants a cookie each time .😂

      Take my word as a female who is female enough to have experienced it:

      The strong, confident, and intelligent men Never give a chance to these so called ‘strong female ‘.

  5. Colby July 8, 2019 Reply

    Well, unfortunately for me it was the opposite. She couldn’t contribute anymore, as I apparently was giving too much. As a mother, partner, lover and person. So after 16 months of pure bliss, she said the following:
    I could have just made the biggest mistake walking away. If after all this i don’t get any closer to finding out who i am and wake up wanting us to find you have a change of feelings, none of this is easy on either of us but its to happen now rather another year down the track. I love and adore you, but must set you free xxxx

  6. Maria July 16, 2019 Reply

    No truer words have ever been spoken. Turns out I’m the one being blamed when all alarm for at least five years I have been trying my ass off until that one day it just clicked. I know that he loves me and the only way he knows how, he truly does. However, he is so tainted and scored by his past that no matter what he will never realize what lies before him. Don’t get me wrong. I have made major mistakes and miss used his trust that will never be regained again. I suppose because he will never be able to truly allow himself to love someone as he did before me. Truth is, so many things have been done two Taint my love for him, things that he felt were just normalcy , And his world not mine. I hope that someday we understand each other the way they should and love each other the way they should.

  7. Peter October 28, 2019 Reply

    What about him letting go it actually isn’t always about the woman and her needs relationships need to go both ways and there is some nasty woman out there .

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