She isn’t the easiest girl to love.


She isn’t the easiest girl to love. She has this bad habit of overthinking. She tends to overreact and she gets a little insecure every once in a while. She’ll be needy for your attention. She wants to literally take up all of your time and she’ll require a lot of reassurance. She isn’t capable of fully trusting you. She doesn’t know when to stop fighting with you even if she’s wrong. She has no problem pushing you away if she feels like you’re close to hurting her. Loving her will stress you out, loving her will make you angry, loving her will break your heart at times, loving her will test you, loving her will challenge you, and loving her will change you. It may get so demanding that you’ll be tempted to walk away, it may get so hard that you’ll think about giving up, and it may get so complicated that you won’t want to deal with her anymore. Loving her means you get to see her at her worst and most vulnerable and that is something that you’ll have to be strong enough to handle because she needs someone who’s patient enough to understand why she is who she is today. It’s not gonna be an easy relationship with her. But if she is in love with you, then she can promise that you’ll be loved with such passion and intensity that you’ll forget what life felt like before she came along because she’ll always be there to put your heart back together after breaking it. Maybe she’s not the best at being loved, but she’s pretty amazing at loving.

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11 Comments

  1. It is not an easy choice to love her and it makes fear. But the best things are never easy to get. It´s no confort zone anymore. And both have to become prepared, to learn and understand the other. She is amazing and I can imagine that she is pretty amazing in loving. She is worth to have somebody who does not hurt her.

  2. You are right commenter Anie…just a matter of open, objective and mature communication between two people in love….

    1. You are so generous commenter Petya…too trusting to declare yourself to be his.hers….

      Hmmmm….perfectly in love…

  3. its so unfortunate that we have whole heartedly at times given so much of ourselves to wrong people with bad intentions in the past, or put them so high up on a pedastool that they never belonged on & not only that, but that we loved them so much we kept taking them back repeatedly, only 2 b continuously let down, disrespected, &hurt…that the emotional & sometimes physical damage has left us so scarred that its this hard for the next person that tries 2 climb our walls: also has to jump thru hoops, climb mountains. swim seas, literally go around the world, to show us they are not our pasts. its not fair to them at all!!! And yes…. if they really love u, they SHOULD understand & b patient & learn 2 earn that trust that was shattered into a million pieces. But….. some dont or “cant” wait years or however long its gonna take…& believe me…its gonna take a good while. 1st we have 2 start loving OURSELVES again b4 we can think about getting close to anyone else…. its a vicious cycle…. all i kno now…id rather be alone & happy with myself, rather than go thru another hellish 4 yrs with somebody i know now didnt deserve ME. i turned down many good guys for this 1 that did so much damage. Im very much still capable of love & a loving relationship/companionship but its gonna take ALOT….& i feel partly 2 blame for that & feel id rather not hafta inflict that much on a person, so i just keep my walls up & my heart closed off 🙁

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