People usually change for two reasons. It’s either they have learned a lot, or they have been hurt a lot.
Yup
I do not believe people change at all. Circumstances change, then their true nature come out.
There is some real truth to that.
I know I changed from understanding but watched others revert back to what they truly were when they lost control over other people. In other words they went right on back to what they were in the first place. Mostly not good.