Not showing you the same love.

It’s really painful to say goodbye to someone that you don’t want to let go of, but it’s even more painful to hold on to them if they never wanted to stay in the first place. If someone doesn’t show you the same love that you show them, and acts as if you are unimportant most of the time, this may be a big clue as to the fact that you don’t need them in your life either. The only people you truly need in your life are those who respect you and want you to be in theirs.

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  1. Note to self ; if somebody doesn’t see your worth, just move on to someone who does ~ Wajahat Ali
    Move on from negative people n mushy

  2. these are true words, but after being with him and loving him for almost 25 years I find my life sucks now that he has revealed he has lied about loving me and wanting to stay married. Our life has not been good for years and I blamed myself and tried to always make it better for our marriage and our kids. Now, he has ran off and deserted us emotionally. I struggle everyday and find I can’t go on sometimes without love. But then I guess I don’t know what love is since I have ruined his life as he says. I don’t know how I can do this what is written here in this statement.

    1. There is really worse. Be glad he left and you aren’t kicking yourself 20 more years later when you have put every ounce of love into your 3 children and stayed in a loveless sexless marriage for appearances. The money is gone now. The children have finished college they have their own lives and if you thought you might sit by the fireplace with grandkids think again. You have become a POW. In that war world you lived. You are no longer kind, soft, gentle, sweet, funny all those things that made you a great mom. HE changed you. But he isn’t too bad. How could your kids think that? Aw it’s been war. There are scars. Mental scars. Be happy he left when he did.

  3. By some of this apparently I’m unable to be loved I’m not a bad person but it seems I’m really easy to walk away from. I always have to fight to stay in peoples life but if I expect the same from them then I’m just pissing in the wind.

  4. Indeed painful…hurting…but had to leave…had to say goodbye….

    The memories will forever be my heart and in my mind.

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