Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly. Really, truly find the strongest, happiest friendship in the person you fall in love with. Someone who speaks highly of you. Someone you can laugh with. The kind of laughs that make your belly ache, and your nose snort. The embarrassing, earnest, healing kind of laughs. Wit is important. Life is too short not to love someone who lets you be a fool with them. Make sure they are somebody who lets you cry, too. Despair will come. Find someone that you want to be there with you through those times. Most importantly, marry the one that makes passion, love and respects you. A love that will never dilute – even when the waters get deep, and dark.
— N’tima

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  1. Is like to think that is possible but be surprised if that does exist anymore.

  2. i’m deeply in love with my best friend…i want to marry her…but i have to wait for the right time..

  3. I wanna marry my best frnd…bt I am worried that if she says NO then? My friendship from yrs & yrs will be finished within a minute..; ( pls help

  4. My best friend s a girl i am happy but at times I wish I have a best friend that s a guy too ………….

  5. no harm trying to express out of what u feel for her my friend.. I married my own best friend of 8 years last Monday..

  6. I married mine but 32 years later he decided sex with someone else was worth more than our friendship. Lynn Powers McLoughlin of Hinsdale New Hampshire liked this page yet she decided sleeping with a married man was her “best friend” I guess. Funny thing is she had no respect for him, ran her mouth about him, yet felt so desperate for sex she decided to prostitute herself out for attention. Couldn’t find her own man. Her first marriage broke up because her ex slept with another….go figure. Then she married another and that only last two years. So she decided to destroy my happy family instead of coming to me and telling me my husband was being deceptive. Good Luck all you people who think this message resonates in the 21st Century. Nothing last forever anymore thanks to the internet and people who live to satisfy their own every needs. Beware ladies, if he starts acting strange it’s because he is listening to the devil in his soul.

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