To encourage you to keep going.
To remind you to be strong.

Published on December 10, 2017 in Picture Quotes
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One of the best feelings is finally losing feelings and your attachment to somebody that isn’t good for you.

4 Comments

  1. Lauren M. December 10, 2017 Reply

    Amen!
    It’s such anguish before it happens and such beautiful relief after it happens.

  2. rosie stewart December 10, 2017 Reply

    sometimes it takes a very long time. sometimes, you can’t even remember when your feelings changed, especially in an abusive marriage or relationship. you can end a relationship because you know it’s making you miserable, you can decide that this is not the way you want to live, and still grieve the relationship, still love the person. and, at last, you realize that you just loved the person that you wanted then to be.

  3. brian radford December 10, 2017 Reply

    It is taking me a long time, every time I go through this. A year or two of avoiding her I will finally stop thinking of her.

  4. Olive December 10, 2017 Reply

    Yes, Rosie Stewart, you are so right. This happened to me it took years to realize this about a certain person, a very close person. As time goes by the wounds really do heal, but you never forget the experience, right? Also it could happen again with someone else and you will recognize it more easily. I find you may/ can forget but never forgive and can’t help hold a grudge? This will be a life long hurt. It will always be there in your subconscious waiting to resurface? Anyway this has been my experience. Good Luck, all!

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