Let it go and be happy.

But at some point you have to stop being so angry, you have to stop being so sad, you have to start being gentle with yourself. At some point you have to just let it all go and be happy, you have to spread love instead of being afraid of it. You have to love yourself and everyone around you before it’s too late. Don’t waste away being unhappy over trivial things. Don’t do it. Don’t do it to yourself and don’t let other people do it to you.

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  1. I find most of your writing inspirational and spot on. It gives me hope when I feel like just giving up on love and relationships.

    But this one really upset me. When someone steals money from me, money that I need badly, because they did not keep their promise to repay me the money I loaned them, I am not going to let it go without using all possible leverage to collect the debt.

    If that means causing them some difficulty with the authorities so be it. I will use all the resources available to me to collect what is rightfully mine.

    If that fails, then I will let it go. Then I will conclude this person is not worthy of my love and attention.

    When I get used and taken advantage of, it sadly hardens my heart for the next time someone asks me to borrow money.

    If someone is truly in need I might chose to give them some money.

    But I will never, ever loan anyone money again.

    And I am sure not going to just let it go without a fight.

    1. Dear Norm, I agree with you. Fight for what’s yours. Give it your best shot. If you have a case with the legal system, you have every right to get justice. But you learned a very priceless lesson; do not lend money, even to a close friend or relative. Many friendships and relationships are destroyed over this. Actually this is an old saying about not lending money. Don’t be so hard on yourself, you have a good heart and do not let anyone try to change that. Just be careful who you trust. But when it comes to money, your car, anything expensive, putting that into someone’s trust is a delicate matter because if they do not return it in it’s entirety or undamaged and they cannot pay, it can cause a lot strife. I wish you all the best.

  2. Awwww …… I hear you Norm! Can’t tell you how many times this has happened to me! And, you can add to that ripping off my purse COUNTLESS times, now they are stealing my mail from the mailbox, which included some checks …Now, I don’t know where you are located, but in the USA going into ANYONE’S mail for ANY reason is a FELONY! They really have no fear, not to mention no respect ….not even for themselves! I really think we can blame the system for alot of this …. we are wayyyyy to lenient in this country ….. breaking ALL of God’s laws! SAD! God Bless!

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