She isn’t the easiest girl to love.

She isn’t the easiest girl to love. She has this bad habit of overthinking. She tends to overreact and she gets a little insecure every once in a while. She’ll be needy for your attention. She wants to literally take up all of your time and she’ll require a lot of reassurance. She isn’t capable of fully trusting you. She doesn’t know when to stop fighting with you even if she’s wrong. She has no problem pushing you away if she feels like you’re close to hurting her. Loving her will stress you out, loving her will make you angry, loving her will break your heart at times, loving her will test you, loving her will challenge you, and loving her will change you. It may get so demanding that you’ll be tempted to walk away, it may get so hard that you’ll think about giving up, and it may get so complicated that you won’t want to deal with her anymore. Loving her means you get to see her at her worst and most vulnerable and that is something that you’ll have to be strong enough to handle because she needs someone who’s patient enough to understand why she is who she is today. It’s not gonna be an easy relationship with her. But if she is in love with you, then she can promise that you’ll be loved with such passion and intensity that you’ll forget what life felt like before she came along because she’ll always be there to put your heart back together after breaking it. Maybe she’s not the best at being loved, but she’s pretty amazing at loving.

-Unknown Author

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  1. Omg. This described my wife perfectly. I had a very turbulent and tiring courtship with her. She’s always suspicious and I’ve to watch what i say to her cause she’ll interpret it wrongly. It was very tiring mentally. But i loved her.i want her to be happy.

    But after the arrival of our children, her focus was on them. Didn’t think that’s a problem. But now on hindsight, this could be the underlying cause of us drifted apart after a huge disagreement. Sigh. Sad.

  2. I’m dealing with a woman that is very difficult to love,she’s aggravating stubborn and a real pain in the ass for lack of a better word,we separate for yrs,an to be honest it was miserable,living without her isn’t a option,but I truly do love Keyanna Hanns with all my heart, she’s just a hand full!

  3. That’s who I am… I’m trying to get smoother but it ain’t easy. The man I love is very very special to me and time to time I know I’m being tough on him but I do love him so much so truly that I have to tell him when his acts or words are being heartbreaking to me, ’cause I don’t want to lose him. I told him that he must talk to me with his heart, that he must trust me with his feelings so I would know exactly where we are standing.
    We have been having harsh times but I never left him and will never leave him. And every time we have to go on our own way until next date, we were fine with each other, knowing that our feelings are the strongest.
    Your author is right. I am a strong woman, life ain’t been easy on me and my kids, but as I never let myself cry or be vulnerable in front of anyone, he is the only one who makes my tears get out and makes me feel a very lot better everytime. And each and every day I don’t see him, I miss him so much that I don’t want to lose him…. and our situation is so complicated aside our feelings for each other that it seems very unreal !!

  4. This type wears hard on the soul and the heart, especially when you see the wonderfulness there.

  5. I didn’t notice that my tears are already flowing..maybe this seems relatable… I’m quite touch..nice

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