That’s why it’s important to put distance between the last relationship and the next. Rule of thumb, if you were in a long relationship give yourself two years so that you can heal, find things to do that interest you. You will be in a better state to recognize if the next person in your life is good, or that they are bullshitting you. Take your time and pay attention to what goes on around you. After my 25 year marriage ended I follow that advice and I’m so happy that I did. The last 14 years have been wonderful.
That’s why it’s important to put distance between the last relationship and the next. Rule of thumb, if you were in a long relationship give yourself two years so that you can heal, find things to do that interest you. You will be in a better state to recognize if the next person in your life is good, or that they are bullshitting you. Take your time and pay attention to what goes on around you. After my 25 year marriage ended I follow that advice and I’m so happy that I did. The last 14 years have been wonderful.