If they love you.

Love is more black and white than we like to tell ourselves. Don’t allow anyone to keep you trapped in the “promise” of the gray area. The bottom line is: If they love you, TRULY love you, they’ll do whatever it takes to be with you. There won’t be excuses or doubts or fears or hesitation. Love is ACTION. Everything else is just words.
~Mandy Hale – The Single Woman

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  1. I contradict! It’s just a wish that love is black and white. Love is black and white in our perfect artistic imagination that wants to be consistent and logical. But life is not like that, because it is lived by faulty people with fears, doubts and worries!
    I read these lines and feel confirmed. Scream inside “Yes, do something and show me that you love me!” and you ? You yell the same “Yes, do something and show me that you love me”. Because we all fail to put ourselves completely in the position of the other. Who is without guilt throw the first stone and do not do other things that you do not want, that they do to you.
    Let’s grab our own nose and ask ourselves.
    “What do we do for love?” And I do not mean what we put into action and time, but what we do as a binding action?
    Can we create clarity? We act selflessly …. no, and why, because we may love, upper do not trust. Confidence comes in small steps on both sides and trust also means giving oneself bliss and, above all, not showing his power.And these words are for everyone who is reading this, also for me…because we are all faulty humans!

  2. Love is not only black and white..but an array of colors. For those who think from the logical perspective love can be seen as black and white clear cut and distinct. Its as simple as saying yes or no. For those who follow their heart over their mind believe love is every single hue and tint of color whether it be a vibrant metallic or a pale pastel. They understand love is not merely all that glitters and embrace every emotion they feel.

    So who is right and who is wrong? What truly is the color of love? That’s ultimately up to you to decide. There is no right or wrong as it is subjective to each and every individual. But to claim that love is only true when it’s black and white and not possible to be any other color is inaccurate.

  3. What you expressed commentator missing you is very nice. Of course, love must have infinite colors, as multifaceted the feelings of love are. Thanks also for the black and white explanation. Of course you can pronounce a clear no or yes with regard to love … there exists no „perhaps“. Because either I love wholeheartedly and say “yes” or I do not love and say “no”. That’s true, of course!

    1. Thank you for your feedback noonespecial. I enjoy reading your responses to these posts. They are always filled with honesty and the truth. You aren’t afraid to express your opinions and you don’t sugarcoat.

  4. I am also afraid to speak the truth. The hardness in my words makes the translation of my native language. It takes a lot of overcoming to express feelings directly but I have so much confidence and hope that this yearning is far greater than any anxiety!

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