I want someone real.

It is such a rarity nowadays to find someone to fall in love with and stay in love with. People don’t seem to want to grow old together anymore, I guess there’s no thrill in that. There’s no thrill in being comfortable, or knowing someone like the back of your hand. I guess you can say I’m an old soul. I’m not about going out every other night or constantly trying to talk to someone new… I just want someone real, something that could last a lifetime. I never needed affection or attention from a various amount of people to make myself feel worthy. I will always be content with the one I love. I guess that just barely exists. It’s almost impossible nowadays to count on someone with all your heart. Seesh, It’s more dangerous than anything. I guess you can say I’m one of the rare ones. I’m not just in it for a reason, season, or lifetime. I’m in it for all three. ~ Melissa Molomo

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  1. If I would write my mind, I would write exactly what you said. I’m happy to know that there are still some people out there thinking in this way. Thank you very much!

  2. This is so true. I finally thought I had found the one for me @38 but it turned out he wanted to control n change me into something else but loved the way I was so kind n giving etc he spoke about growing old together n what we would do together, but the moment it got serious he would be running scared n be nowhere to be found. Unfortunately I still love this man n I wish I didn’t, he was just to cruel both verbally n physically n to controlling for any female.
    I am not rasist by any means but if ur not going to let go of some of ur culture n live n love n trust the person u had in the palm of ur hand than u need to find a girl of ur our culture, one that unfortunate lives in the free country Australia but don’t know it due to ur old cultures ways
    I gave my self to a man who could hide his true self to all but when at home it was do different if I said or did something he disapproved of, right down to where I could or couldn’t work.
    It is so sad that people like that exist why can people not trust n believe in another, r their thoughts so twisted that they can’t c past their own twisted minds n believe that some people r just to giving n kind n just want to make the one they love happy no matter what! I was prepared to let mine take my life. I knew one day as did he that he would do as he sad he would, yes many have said I am stupid to have statues w him but I truly believed he would stop n open his eyes n his mind n c just who n what he had in his hands all the time, something so big n wonderful n once in a lifetime love that was do connected to hm. It has been like losing the one I spend 100yrs w n now his gone n possible has a new victim

  3. It better to be single than settle for someone who you know you can’t be faithful to or who can’t satisfy you. Because one day, if you really fall in love with someone, you will end up break the first person’s heart.

  4. Thk u . Nd ,understand your hurt , just a few sentences based upon on my experiences on tackling the roller coasters of my life .

    “Forgiveness is the highest spiritual practice

    It begins when you recall those who hurt you

    and feel the power to wish them well .”

    Have also been hurt in my life and this is what I did and today I am healed and whole . The choice is yours .

  5. As i read this all i could think about was my soulmate. Thank you because this lets me know that there is people still lookong for the same, and that its not dying away. My boyfriend is someone more then just a season, he is to me my eyernal partmer!

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