I learned

I learned that who doesn’t look for you, doesn’t miss you and who doesn’t miss you doesn’t care for you… That destiny determines who enters your life, but you decide who stays… that the truth hurts only once and a lie every time you remember it. That there are three things in life that leave and never return: words, time and opportunities. Therefore, value whoever values you and don’t treat as a priority whoever treats you as an option.

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  1. I guess I have recently realized I have been doing this very thing. I am still in the process of understanding and accepting where I am at. I am praying for confidence to change and move on. I deserve it. I care for people too much and definitely more than they care for me.

  2. I finally realise that i am just an option to the person i am honestly in love with and to be a priority is just next to impossible. It hurts so much and staying away is the most crucial time of my life. But i believe in me, i believe in my strength.it will be so difficult but at the end of this journey i know that there comes the light waiting for me.

  3. Im still learning how to put myself first now. Ive taking care of everyone and everything for 25 yrs, im now 42. No one has taken care of me, looked out for me or loved me as much as i did them (family, friends). I think I deserve love and to be loved. (Widowed for almost 2 yrs now, and had to care for hubby in the final years.) Friends/family have taken advantage of my love, assistance, and my very being. I DESERVE BETTER

  4. Having given up 20+ years of raising and loving a child and feeling great joy at that child’s successes and accomplishments I will rise from the ashes of one conversation -that told me exactly where I stand in that person’s estimation – and I will move on – wishing only love,health and happiness to them. I will be very careful, continuing my love, sharing when I can, not an optimist,not negative, asking questions, wanting answers, so I will understand -assuming a conversation is an exchange of ideas. Being a realist.
    G being myself. A realist.

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