I have loved. I have lost and I have changed.

I have loved. I have lost and I have changed. It has been difficult but I have learned so much from it. I have learned that people can hurt you so deeply and not even worry about you. I learned that good people can change in a minute when their hearts have been broken. I’ve met great people, but mean people as well. But the most important thing I have learned is that every person in this world is strong enough to let go . People come and go and that’s life ! The most important thing is to stand up and realize that you deserve something better than a person who gives up on you.

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  2. I think some people compare me with others, those who can easily get out from unhappy life, even they didn’t know how long they have to wait, n those people are free without kids n can b independent without worrying whose gonna watch their kids while they’re not around.
    So many I want to say, but I think is useless.
    Good luck in finding whoever you think is easy to get without facing any process n don’t need to wait.

  3. I have what most people i have met describe as a good heart- i give, help , trust, serve always almost immediately. but repeatedly, i get hurt, tricked,taken for granted. now i have learned to look before leaping and to take a walk at the earliest appearance of trouble. you wrote this just for me. thanks.

    1. Really? What happened? Taken for granted like what? If sign for a paper to help sibling is it includes taken for granted even didn’t spend any dime?
      Hurt like what? Is it if people keep writing by themselves for almost 10 months n not even once got any reply n felt abandoned still hurting somebody? Who’s hurt the most?
      You think a younger person, almost as younger as their kid want to do that without any feelings?
      What about you..

  4. Ironically, this was what I wrote on a previous post this morning. This positive message added to what I had wrote. Here is that comment from a previous post…. Amen. Woke up this morning angry with a person that prefers to be a manipulator. Than I thought, how dare people play games at other people’s expense? Waiting to let my anger pass and work on letting them go but when people can play wicked games and claim they are Christian, makes me question their true motives. Than I look to a higher strength and I say it’s time to let them go, they are vexatious on the soul, let them go. Not every Christian is back stabbing, or in to manipulation, God knows the purity of our hearts. Love is kind, Love isn’t jealous, Love does not brag, Love dose not judge. Love is pure and comes from within and goes outward. I have to let go of the negitive, that dont mean there aren’t people who will enter my life and will be filled with negitivity, so how does one let go when others you love bring these type of people into your life? There are only so many cheeks you can turn before you walk way and say your done. Is that judging? I am working through it, prayer is my only hope. I will not allow another to define me, That is a Power greater than me to decide. I will not bring myself to a level of their negitivity. I will only trust in that Power I choose to call GOD or Good Orderly Direction. SS for sharing here and now, but I appreciate these Post that remind us to live in our world and decide what we will or will not be allowed to define our own energy within our day. I am working through a negitivity energy from yesterday, and it is still trying to grab my heart strings this morning. I am using my knowledge and understanding to work my way through it. Hugs people that choose a path of enlightenment. The road can be lonely, but I know we are not alone. Have a wonderful day, I am working on changing mine, and letting go of those I can not change, I can only change me in the light to which I thrive. I choose a path of the positive light. It is within my Power no matter what negitivity comes in through my door. Have a wonderful day. I know I will through a strength greater than myself. Thanks for letting me share this morning thought.

  5. I strongly agree unknown, it’s almost four months since the relationship ended. It was very difficult to process this enormous pain this void in my heart and soul. The person I believed would be a mature women at age 37 who I haven’t seen in almost three years convinced me to trust and that we were meant to be together only to be manipulated and cheated on throughout the course of the 8 months according to her it was all my fault. I didn’t give up I faught for her for us she did’nt want to realize it. In the end I
    ‘know what I’m worth, who I am and know what a meaningful and a normal relationship is I will walk away with ny head up high knowing she will Never meet another man liKe me I can promise heR that.

    1. Wow! Are you the most handsome man in Saudi Arabia? Lol 🙂
      Have you ever read bout Omar Borkan Al Gala deported from Saudi Arabia for being too handsome? Google it, it was funny tho

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