Hold on or let go.

We are often let down by the most trusted people and loved by the most unexpected ones. Some make us cry for things that we haven’t done, while others ignore our faults and just see our smile. Some leave us when we need them the most, while some stay with us even when ask them to leave. The world is a mixture of people. We just need to know which hand to shake and which hand to hold! After all that’s life, learning to hold on and learning to let go.

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  1. This is just so true. I’m going though the change of going out on my own for first time in 7 Years. I’ve been trying to let go of emotions, It’s a hard thing letting go of this house im in and trying to stay postive while waiting to hear if I have the place. I agree with everything said in article.

  2. If a person do not want to talk with me who was in relation with me so nowhow to let him go.. ?wht should i do..?

    1. Just surround yourself with your frnds.. Frnds are best pain healers.. Be with them.. You will realize how important you are….

  3. This topic touched my heart today as I work through being separated and struggling to work out an almost 19 year marriage after over a year apart… and holding onto her… whIle I thought she’d let me go.
    So I wrote this for her today, to show her I just can’t let her go….

    To my wife… dear Carol;
    When we STEP beyond what was, they say your taking a step in a new or different direction…..
    When we JUMP, we imagine for joy or how high we can reach…..
    When we CLIMB, we strive to reach a new place or obstacle in our journey. …
    When we take FLIGHT, we rise above everything to feel free or see beyond our own horizons. …
    When we DREAM, we believe that ANYTHING is possible !?¿!
    When we LOVE, we simply want to experience them with someone very special. … ALL at once !!!!

  4. When someone you loved from bottom of your heart realize you that you now not so important in their life, then it is time move on. Life is unpredictable..

  5. On the day my husband left us bec. Of cancer, i hold on to the LORD’s hand bec. I know He is with us that very saddest moment of our life,its hard for us TO LET HIM GO, but we must; bec we are sure that he is with God,resting in peace and no pains anymore. Now im holding on and shaking with the right Hand of the LORD bec i know i am safe with HIS hand . . .

  6. i want to let someone go because theres a lady whose taking my peace away,saying am taking her fiance away,he says the lady is a friend,but it confuses me and still i love him n want him by my side,i cant believe what am going through…why me now?

  7. Really its true. bt it is very difficult to know someone thats who it better for us. people changes with time, situation nd condition. sometime importance for someone changes with time. they hurt us a lot by their act. its really very painful to accept thats all.

  8. The best hand to hold on to is Jesus hand. If the son sets you free, you are free indeed. Instability gravitates toward emotional gratification. Stability thrives when one is at peace. The greatest challenge is to understand oneself. Life is full of endless opportunities. Learn to appreciate yourself and let God bring into your life meaningfulness.

  9. Sometimes we have to let go people v love d most… very painful bt have to do it as they cant understand us and are not at al able fr our love afection care…
    Bt ths flng realy leads to distruction….

  10. This made me reflect on my year. I was dumped by my girlfriend and diagnosed with cancer, at nearly the same time. She told me we would remain friends, and did so for awhile, but now after not hearing from her for several months, I’m starting to believe she was never my friend at all. You have hurt me deeply, Darla.

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