Hold on or let go.

We are often let down by the most trusted people and loved by the most unexpected ones. Some make us cry for things that we haven’t done, while others ignore our faults and just see our smile. Some leave us when we need them the most, while some stay with us even when ask them to leave. The world is a mixture of people. We just need to know which hand to shake and which hand to hold! After all that’s life, learning to hold on and learning to let go.

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  1. I have always been let down by my husband and made me cry every time, accused me of things I did’nt do. Never trusted me, treated me like a stranger, never supported me, never proud of me, never understood me but at the same time I cared for him and loved him dearly. He had a stroke and partly physically disabled. I feel very bad and sad for him. I took care of him, gave everything I’ve got. He was so unappreciative of everything I do. The worst of him came out, his true colors got the best of him. I could not take it anymore after 34 years of mistreatment. I finally left him. I know, I left him when he needed me the most! I still love him dearly but i have to take care of myself now and live my own life, do the things I want …JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY!

  2. i knew he love me before and i felt it..but suddenly change after few months don’t know if it is because of our long distance relationship. But anyway when he say that we need to say goodbye to each other at first I don’t want cuz I loved him so much..but after all its more hurt if i let my self stay with the person who’s feelings for u is no more..so i let him go..as what they say if you love the person let him go.
    And in that way u value ur self and him..just be happy.

  3. Hi Let,

    My suggestion wwould be, both of u could have sat & discuss about ur problem with him sepacutely and it hurts u due to his behavior…….without anyone’s interference

    He spent time with u (likely or unlikely) around 34 years & didn’t left u searching for another girl during this 34 years….

    He might be kind of dominant person……but those people will not rrealise mistakes until someone highlight on their bbehaviour……& u might have fear on him to talk with him on that……
    i would suggest to speak openly with him & lead ur life on ur own wish with companion rest PF ur life…….since u already left him, he could have realized ur importance at this point of time

    Life never end with this…& u can change everything when u make continuous effort to lead ur life as u which…

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