You feel so warm inside.

My goal in life is to be one of those people who are just light. You see them and you suddenly feel so warm inside and all you want to do is hug them. And they look at you and smile with the warmest light in their eyes…. and you love them. maybe not in a romantic way but you just want to be close to them and you hope some of their light transfers onto you.

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  1. that is a precious and beautiful goal for life! An overreach, so to speak.
    @ commentator ARLENE: Hmm, if that is not enough for someone you need perhaps think about one very important thing:
    There is a big difference between, you want to give a love for humanity and longing for a romantic love!
    If someone is looking for romantic partnership with you, this is of course fatal, because the person will never reach his/her desire and you should not allow false hopes here. You need to care that this person with their romantic feelings can orientate themselves in another direction otherwise you will reach the opposite of what you want. You will create pain not love. In addition to the absolutely aspirational goal of being a loving and light-filled person, I think that despite everything, most people have a great need for romance togetherness and physical love and are looking for a harmonious partnership. You have to respect this, also maybe for you there is no need! I often get annoyed that these two completely different things get often mixed up.
    P.S. But in fact my impression of all your comments you gave here was alsways that you are also looking for a romantic partnership.

    1. Yes commenter noonespecial, I have learned that my lightness as a person may connote something not good producing pain…hence a learning- filtering friendships…

      Besides, miscommunication broadens the gap. Yes, I do greatly care for those persons whose contentions are good and realistic..and I respect it so much…part of our uniqueness as humans with heart.

  2. I agree with you noonespecial ( I bet you really are special). I have just gone through this with a lady who was like a magnet and had that light. Of course she went way overboard with how she treated me and certainly I had to misinterpret that as flirting. When a lady looks at you and her eyes just sparkle, you think they have feelings for you. It is really easy to fall for somebody when they are acting as a light for you, it is easy to misinterpret and it hurts really bad when you are rejected. Then that light leaves you as they don’t really want you to feel better, they were trying to make themselves feel better the entire time. They can’t even bring themselves to tell you what they were doing or give you a compliment to help you get through this. She just moved on to other people to light up. Most of us desire a romantic relationship and love and enjoy the feeling that happens when somebody is giving you extra attention, not knowing they are just giving you their light, with no feelings involved. Divorced women coming out of a divorce are the worse, they don’t want feelings for somebody but throw out misleading signals in order to draw attention and build their own confidence.

    1. Hmmm commenter Brian, have you tried expressing to her how you feel towards her? Matter of open communication helps…

      That woman you met might be by nature light.spirited….her heart may be overflowing with kindness, positivism and empathy…a person treated kindly may not be rejected but still in the mode of being placed as somebody whose got to be known better with the passage of time…

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