Fall In Love With Someone Who Makes It Impossible To Love Anyone Else.

Fall in love with someone who chooses you just as confidently as you choose them. Commit to the person who lifts you up whenever things get rough, the person who fights to make things work when the reality of life gets difficult and discouraging.

Fall in love with someone who sees the wars within you and not only chooses to stay, but chooses to stand by your side and help you fight them. Strive to find someone who cradles your dark, who embraces your light, someone who always wants to be your best when you yourself are not your best; someone who reminds you of every strong thing you are whenever you feel feeble.

Fall in love with someone who does not make you feel like you are hard to love. Give your heart to someone who does not call you weak for feeling so deeply, someone who adores the soft creature you are, and who fights to protect it in a hardened world.

Fall in love with someone who challenges you, who inspires you to think and feel. Fall in love with someone who ignites a wildness within you; someone who grows your mind just as much as they grow your heart.

Fall in love with someone who respects you for changing because they understand that it means you’re growing. Dedicate yourself to the person who stands in awe of how you bloom, how you flourish; someone who loves you not only for who you are, but for who you have the potential to be.

Please, do not ever settle for less. Keep waiting. Keep learning about yourself, keep trying and fighting for the heart within your chest. Keep growing and nourishing your wants, keep discovering your needs. When the time is right, you are going to fall in love with someone who will appreciate everything you stand for, who will compliment you in ways you never imagined. When the time is right, the love you have always been worthy of will flower within your life, and you will finally, finally, understand why you had to wait so long.

Written by: Bianca Sparacino

This article was originally published in thoughtcatalog.com

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  1. Love it. I may be still single but I know there is still hope !!Hope for real love and accepting ….Being okay being with and enjoying life !

  2. I knew that this beautiful piece had to be written by a woman because I knew many man as friends, relatives and acquaintances. In my opinion none of them had the capacity to feel that deeply, to love that profoundly truly believe that kind of all encompassing love is only a trait of the female of the species

  3. Through life we meet a lot of people, some fit in our arms like a bargain piece and with time they slip and the place the leave in our arms gets harder to addapt with that, but it’s not a loss, cause we always knew how to embrace the parts that come and go , may be on the way of shifting parts we learn to stick tighter ..We only learn how to hug harder.

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