Do you understand?

No one is going to love you exactly like you imagine. No one is ever going to read your mind and take every star from the sky at the perfect time and hand it to you. No one is going to show up at your door on a horse, with a shoe you lost. Do you understand? That’s why you have to love yourself enough, so that any other love just adds more candles to the cake you’ve already iced. ~ Stephanie Bennett-Henry

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  1. I understand that I should no longer react, for anything can be interpreted as anything.
    I could be suspected for good intentions, assumed for taking to task or giving any suggestions which my brain can just think of.
    I will no longer react or comment, because I need to remember that it is not about me, he may have forgotten about me anymore as well.
    But before I leave i dont want anyone to suffer about past. And I have no intentions to hurt or take revenge on anyone {Am i that low standards, now i feel so bad ? }
    God, please keep me away from such postings and help me be alone with myself. I dont need to help anyone or suggest.

  2. I am not made for you, you not for me.
    Please dont chase me anymore, i want to live on my own.
    You are playing games with me and this is like more than anyone can tolerate.

    You better understand… and get away from me. Forever please. I cannot take your games and stabbing anymore it hurts…

    Let me live or die but by myself. Get lost please dont show up ever.

    1. First acted like feeling sorry then make you feel bad with confessions and then if you let go and say its fine they throw tantrums and use words against you.
      Yes its playing games. But if not you they ll get many more. All are same.
      Cannot accept truth to you but will expect you to not be hurt anytime

    2. Rashmi , understand what you have gone through . Have experienced this in my own life and healed . Give yourself time , space and please move on and put the past behind you . Live in the present . It can be done .All the very best for your healing .

      1. My past is my life. I have got many things which i cant find answers. Thanks for your advice.

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