Being rude is easy. It does not take any effort and is a sign of weakness and insecurity. Kindness shows great self-discipline and strong self esteem. Being kind is not always easy when dealing with rude people. Kindness is a sign of a person who has done a lot of personal work and has come to a great self-understanding and wisdom. Kindness is a sign of STRENGTH.
True…sometimes in your kindness some people will try to test your strength, your self-discipline, your tolerance, your patience. Sometimes because you are kind you will be be pushed beyond your limit. It is in how you handle yourself in times like these that matters most.