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Archive for July, 2019

  • July 14, 2019
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    The Strongest Women Have A Loved One In Heaven.

     

    We all know what heartbreak feels like. The pain of loss is something that is intimately connected with the human condition. Everyone has their own stories of lost love, of painful memories and tearful nights alone. 

    But no knife cuts deeper than that of death. When we lose the ones we love to the currents of time and they slip past the veil into the great beyond, we feel a pain unlike any other on this earth. We’ve lost them – at least until we join them again. But they’re no longer here to share life with us. We can no longer look into their eyes, no longer see them looking back at us with love and warmth and recognition. It’s a soul-crushing, heart-wrenching pain beyond belief. 

    So, this is for the women who’ve lost someone. This is for the women who have seen their time with their loved ones run out, who have endured loss and pain like no other. This is for all of the incredible, inspiring people who have had their worlds shattered and flipped upside down and are still picking up the pieces today. You’re stronger than you know.

    You’ve seen the worst of life, and you’re still managing to carry on. Even when it doesn’t feel like you are, you’re here. You’re surviving. You’re enduring. And that’s inspiring. 

    You know how it feels to have spoken to someone for the last time and have them slip away. You know how it feels to remember the last words they ever spoke to you.

    You’re strong. Even if it doesn’t feel like you are, even if it feels like you’re not coping, I promise you that you are. You’re brave, and you’re strong, and you’re inspirational. 

    This is for those of us who live on. This is for the survivors. The bent, the broken, the suffering. The ones who were left behind. The ones who cry and sometimes wish that we were up there with them.

    Nothing lasts. All things have to change eventually. In time, all things come to pass. We might be left behind for now, but it won’t be that way forever. 

    So, we go on. We keep struggling. We keep surviving. We fight to live our lives, and live them well. Nothing and no one can ever replace those we’ve lost. When the sun sets, no candle can ever compare. When we lose the ones we love, it feels like there’s nothing but absence and emptiness left for us in their place.

    But still, we go on. We do it not because living is easy, but because we know that living our lives well is what our lost loved ones would have wanted. We know they’re looking down on us and smiling, so we live our lives as best we can in the knowledge that we’ll get to see them again someday. 

    Life can and will be satisfying and fulfilling, even without the ones we’ve lost. It will never be the same, but it is always worth seeing through to the end.

    Written by Maverick, Staff writer at Lessons Learned In Life Inc. ©

  • July 13, 2019
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    It’s Not That I Don’t Care, You’re Just Not Worth The Fight.

    I’ve tried so hard for so long to make sense of everything. It’s been a long, difficult road to even get my head halfway clear enough to make a mature and responsible decision about what I want from us. But now that I’m finally seeing things properly, I want to lay everything out for you in order to explain. I know that you don’t understand, that you think that somewhere along the line I just stopped caring about you, but that just isn’t the truth.

    You need to realize that there was a big part of me that wanted to keep on going like we have been. I could have gone in circles forever. 

    But that isn’t what’s right. It isn’t what’s right for me, and it’s not what is right for you, either. I’ve spent so long trying to make things work that it’s hard to finally accept that it wasn’t meant to be, but I know now that I have to. 

    There was a time when I thought things would all work out eventually. I thought that we’d smooth out all of the kinks, that the lying and the mistakes and the heartache would one day come to an end. But over time, I’ve woken up and smelt the coffee. The weeks turned into months, the months turned to years, and nothing changed.

    I realized that the relationship we would have in the future would be the exact same as the one we had then. I looked deep into my heart and asked myself if I could do this forever, and the reply was both heart-breaking and strangely relieving. 

    I realized that if I wanted to be happy, if I wanted both of us to be happy, then I had to let you go. It’s nothing personal. I still care about you. In fact, it’s because I care about you that I’m telling you this at all. We just weren’t meant to be, no matter how much we wanted that to be the case. 

    I don’t regret the time we spent together. You taught me priceless lessons about love, about life, about the process of being human. You will always have a place in my heart. I just can’t do this anymore. 

    I can’t carry on like this. I know nothing will change if we keep doing everything exactly the same, going around in these circles where we hurt each other and cry because all we want is to be happy together. I’ve realized that perhaps that just isn’t possible for us. 

    So, it’s time for me to say goodbye. I know I wasn’t perfect, and I know you weren’t either. We both did our best, but our best wasn’t good enough, and that’s okay. It’s not something that we can control. All we can do is learn from our mistakes and go forward as better people.

    I’m sorry that we didn’t work out. I’m sorry that we just weren’t right for each other. We both gave it our best shot, but it was never going to work. Now we have to part ways. Our roads go on, but they go on in different directions. Thank you for everything, and please try your best to understand. I get it if you hate me, if you never want to speak to me again, but I’m only trying to do what’s best. I hope that one day you understand.

    Goodbye, and try to remember the good times we shared. I know I always will.

    Written by Maverick, Staff writer at Lessons Learned In Life Inc. ©

  • July 12, 2019
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    The Strongest Women Are The Women With Anxiety 

     

    They say that what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. If that’s true, then us women who suffer so badly from anxiety conditions are the strongest of all.

    As we all know too well, when you have anxiety you’re trapped in a constant battle with your own mind. Every second of every day, you’re fighting just to keep control. It makes you doubt yourself. It makes you afraid to speak up, or to crack jokes, or even to get out of bed and hop in the shower. It’s exhausting. 

    Sometimes you win. Sometimes the grey clouds that hover over your head clear for a moment. Everything seems brighter, colors look more vivid. But more often than not, you lose. You’re pulled back down into that pit and you’re forced to start over again from scratch. 

    Doing this over and over again day after day wears us down. But the important thing is that we get back up every time we’re knocked down. That’s what makes us so incredibly, uniquely strong. Perseverance. We hang in there, no matter how hard things get. We put ourselves in the firing line, knowing it’s going to hurt. We force ourselves to do the things we don’t want to do – even if we’re not successful every time. 

    We go on. We keep trying. We don’t give up, even though it hurts.

    It’s too easy to just throw in the towel. It’s easy to give up, to decide that we’re going to stay inside all day and binge watch Netflix. Sometimes, that’s exactly what we do – sometimes it’s exactly what we need. 

    But most of the time, we push through. We get ourselves up, we feed ourselves, we keep ourselves functioning. That is the truly incredible thing. That’s what makes us so special. That’s what makes you so strong. 

    It’s hard being human at the best of times, but when a single thought or trigger can send your mind spinning off into a horrible, panicky train of thought at a moment’s notice the process of being alive can seem like nothing but a sick joke.

    We all have good days and bad days. We have days when things seem to be a little easier, when everything seems to go that bit smoother. We also have days when it feels like we just can’t catch a break. Days when no matter how hard we try, nothing goes our way.

    You try so hard. You give it your all, but sometimes it’s like it’s just never enough for you to feel normal. It’s never enough for you to feel like other people seem to feel. You look at them, wondering how they can live so easily and carefree while you’re melting down in anxiety. But you don’t give up.

    And that’s the reason you’re so strong – that’s the reason all of us are so incredibly inspiring. As hard as it gets, we hang in there, for better or worse. We endure. We go on towards a brighter future – and we do it because we know there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. We never give up hope. We know it will all work out in the end. All we have to do is persevere, to get back up regardless of how many times life knocks us down and for that, we’re the strongest women in the world.

  • July 12, 2019
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    I know good men still exist because I’m lucky enough to have one.

  • July 11, 2019
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    A Strong woman doesn’t seek revenge. She moves on and lets karma do her dirty work.

  • July 11, 2019
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     No matter how old a girl getsshe never stops needing her mom.

  • July 8, 2019
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    In lifeit’s important to know when to stop arguing with people and simply let them be wrong.

  • July 7, 2019
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    People Will Provoke You

    5 Signs You’re Dating A Narcissist:

     

    They only talk about themselves.

    This is easily the first sign of a narcissist. They only talk about themselves. You meet their parents and it’s like you’re an afterthought.

    They only talk about how they’re doing. They take almost no interest in your life. They’re blinded by their own stuff.

    They tend to be really into what they do.

    It’s fine to be enthusiastic about your job or hobbies, but narcissists tend to be so into what they do that they put you and everyone else on the back burner for it.

    They create a fake image.

    Narcissists often have very deep rooted personal issues with feeling secure and with high self esteem, so they create a fake image of themselves.

    They control every last detail about their lives, or at least the life that you get the opportunity to see.

    They manipulate the facts.

    Narcissists will alter facts about just about anything in order to make it conform to their personal belief system or their narrative.

    They embellish how things actually happened and skimp on details, or sometimes even add details to a story.

    They’re entitled.

    At the end of the day, the narcissist thinks they’re entitled because they’ve never been told otherwise. Don’t be a tool for them to get what they want.

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  • July 3, 2019
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    Psychologists Are Now Suggesting Mothers Should Take Breaks And Go On Mom-cations.

    In the mind-bogglingly busy world of the 21st century, there’s been a rapid growth in the number of mothers taking annual ‘mom-cations’ – a vacation to themselves, where they have an extended period of me-time. Moms are increasingly understanding the need for them to take time to themselves in order to rest and recharge their batteries, something that has been supported by numerous psychologists and healthcare professionals who have warned that mothers should take a legitimate break for themselves. Mom-cation”, a recent trend made popular by social media, is a brief vacation where moms travel together or solo without their family. ( can be beneficial for mental health by providing an opportunity for uninterrupted relaxation, giving mothers a chance to recharge their emotional batteries. 
    Having time to yourself is absolutely essential in order to take a break from the stress and pressure of modern life. Between running the kids to school, making sure they’re fed, and doing the laundry, being a mom is a full-time job. If you don’t get some space away from it, you’ll end up feeling burnt up and worn out.
    Many mothers shrink from the idea of being away from their kids from any amount of time. They selflessly put their families first and sacrifice their own physical and mental wellbeing in order to provide for them. The thing is, mom-cations are about more than just providing rest for exhausted mothers; they’re beneficial for the whole family. They help everyone to see the balance and moderation that needs to be maintained in the family situation, and allow everyone to get some time away from seeing each other that they need in order to maintain healthy relationships. Everyone needs space and time away from others to be by themselves, family included!
    It’s great to have a few days to yourself, not having to worry about whether your kids have eaten or if they’ve done their homework!
    However, obviously not all moms are lucky enough to have the free time or spare money to arrange a trip away for themselves. If you fall into this category, then here are three ways to help you take breaks throughout your everyday life!

     

    Give yourself one morning off every week;

    All mothers know that weekends are essentially non-existent for them. Between chores, taking the kids out to places, and doing parent-admin, moms don’t get a whole lot of time to themselves on Saturday and Sunday. That’s why it’s important to give yourself at least a morning off every week in order to take a breather and relax a bit. Perhaps you could even head back to bed after you’ve dropped the kids at school!

    Take a day off every month;

    Following on from the above point, try to take at least one day off every month to focus entirely on whatever it is that you want to do. Life is too short not to enjoy yourself. Don’t let it pass you by in an endless sea of errands, chores, and a ‘what do I have to do next?’ mentality like so many others do. Instead, take the time to actually live your life.

    Spread out household chores;

    – Although it might seem like there’s an endless number of chores to do every day, for your own peace of mind you should try and give yourself days without them. If you’re doing nothing but chores day after day you’ll drive yourself insane. You could concentrate all of them to just a couple of days a week, or do little and often. Whatever works for you!

     

    If you’re feeling tired, worn out, and done with being a mom, then what you need is a mom-cation. But don’t just take my word for it – try it for yourself and see the kind of difference it can make in your life!

    Written by Maverick, Staff writer at Lessons Learned In Life Inc. ©

     

     

     

     

  • July 2, 2019
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    If someone really loves you, no matter how many other people they meet, their feelings for you wouldn’t change. A real lover can’t be stolen.

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    6 Good Reasons Why You Should Travel With Your Mom At Least Once A Year.

    When was the last time you really spent time with your mom? I don’t mean a quick catch up, I mean really spent time with her. Long talks, going shopping together, eating out at a nice restaurant, that kind of thing? 
    If you’re like most adults these days, the answer is probably ‘a long time ago’. It can be hard to make time for the people we love and appreciate the most in life. Although taking a trip might seem like the kind of thing you’d sooner do with a partner or friend rather than your mother, it is a great way to spend quality time together as adults, just the two of you. 

    Here are six reasons why you should go on vacation with your mom!

     

    Life is too short not to spend time with the people we love;

    – Life might seem like a long journey at times, but it’s not. The older you get, the faster time seems to pass. Before you know it, it will be too late to spend time with the people you’re close to. The chance will pass you by, and you’ll be left wishing you’d handled things differently. You have to make time for your mom while you can, and while you’re both able to fully enjoy all the benefits of a vacation. Let’s be honest, it can be hard to find the time to talk to our parents. Taking a few days to dedicate to being with your mom can be a great way to get in some serious quality time.

     

     

    You’ll make memories you cherish for a lifetime;

    – The real value in life is the time we spend with the people who mean the most to us. Shared experiences are worth more than anything. It’s only when we’re doing things with others that we make strong memories with them, and there’s no better way to make beautiful memories with your mom than heading off on vacation with her. Just imagine hanging out on the beach in the sun drinking pina coladas and reconnecting as friends!

     

     

    You’ll see her in a whole new light;

    – It’s quite rare for people to go on vacation with their parents as adults, or even spend an extended amount of time with them. They therefore miss out on the perspective shift that comes with getting closer to their mom as a person and a friend. You’re a grown up now. You can see a whole different side of her than you knew growing up. She’ll be able to give you her wisdom and advice in a way you might not have had access to before. 

     

    You’ll get to know each other better;

     Lots of moms get used to playing the role of the mother for so long that they almost forget what it’s like to be an individual person – especially when it comes to their children. This could be an opportunity for you to view each other as people rather than just a parent and child, opening up new avenues to explore in each other’s personalities. Have fun together!

    She deserves it;

     Let’s be honest, all moms deserve some time away. They put in so much hard work in order to raise us, always giving pieces of themselves and receiving nothing in return. They show us how to survive and thrive in the world, and put us before themselves year after year. It’s nice to be able to repay the favor once in a while by surprising them with a trip somewhere nice and relaxing (and hot!).

     

    You will come to understand how deep her love for you really is; 

    Often, it’s only once we see things from a fresh perspective that we can truly begin to appreciate them. Travelling with your mom is a great way to have your eyes opened to the true depth of love that she has for you. She’ll make sure you’ve eaten, she’s stick by your side whether she’s tired or not, and she’ll take those perfect photos you need for Facebook.
    That’s why moms are so awesome – they never stop caring for you like they did when you were just a little baby. So, what are you waiting for? Give her a call and tell her that it’s time for you to repay all the favors she’s given to you over the years!

    Written by Maverick, Staff writer at Lessons Learned In Life Inc. ©