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  • June 30, 2019
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    She’s Letting You Go Because You Don’t Deserve Her Anymore

     

    A lot of guys seem not to understand why it is that the beautiful, capable, independent women they love and lose decide to end things with them. Time and time again, I’ve seen men spouting the same tired old excuses to caress their egos and make themselves feel better. ‘She’s crazy’, or ‘Her expectations are too high’. 
    This isn’t even remotely close to the truth. Allow me to spell it out for you:
    She’s done with you because you just don’t deserve her anymore.

    She put up with your behaviour long enough. She gave you chance after chance to give her what she wants, what she needs. She gave you all the time, energy, and effort that she possibly could, and what did she get in return?
    The bare minimum. As little effort as you thought you could get away with putting in.
    You don’t deserve her jokes. You don’t deserve her laugh. You don’t deserve her tears, or her words, or her touch, or her love, or her heart. You don’t deserve her at all.
    She could have been your Queen. She could have given you the world, if only you’d opened your arms to her like she did to you. She loved you. She loved you with a purity, a tender genuine feeling of deep affection for all of the things she once thought she saw in you. 
    But no more. Those days are over now.
    You wasted every shot you got. You squandered chance after chance to be there for her, to be the man she needed you to be. All she got from you was empty promises and poor excuses. She’s letting you go because she’s tired of the mistakes, of the lies, of the half-hearted apologies.
    She tried her best to make things work. She gave you her all, but it was never enough. After all, relationships are a team sport, but there was only ever one person batting in yours.
    She’s sick of it. She’s tired. She’s been worn down emotionally by the toll your relationship took on her. She spent too long waiting for you to look at her with those same loving eyes that she used to fix on you. 
    Somewhere along the way, she fell out of touch with who she was. She spent so long trying to make you happy that she neglected her own individuality. Well, no more. She’s going to reclaim the life she’s put second for so long. She’s going to start putting herself first for once, making herself her number one priority. 
    She doesn’t need you anymore, because she’s realized that she never did.
    She doesn’t hate you. She doesn’t hold a grudge. She’s not trying get revenge. She just doesn’t love you anymore. There’s no place left for you in her life, and that’s okay. She wishes you all the best.
    So when you lie awake at night, thinking about what could have been, know that she wasn’t crazy. She wasn’t unfair. It was you who lost out on the greatest thing that ever happened to you, because you were too blind to know what you had when you had it.
    You don’t deserve her anymore, so she’s moving on.

    Written by Maverick, Staff writer at Lessons Learned In Life Inc. ©

  • June 29, 2019
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    My story is filled with broken pieces, terrible choices and ugly truths. It’s also filled with a major comeback, peace in my soul, and a grace that saved my life.
    -Unknown.

  • June 29, 2019
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    You’re gonna piss a lot of people off when you start doing what’s best for you.

  • June 28, 2019
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    Texting is a brilliant way to miscommunicate how you feel, and misinterpret what other people mean. – Stanley Behrman.

  • June 26, 2019
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    Some people are holding grudges against you for things they did to you.

  • June 25, 2019
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    No matter how good or bad you think life is, wake up each morning and be thankful you still have one.

  • June 24, 2019
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    My moral in life is simple, you treat me good and I’ll definitely treat you better.

  • June 24, 2019
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    Life is better when you allow yourself to cry a little, laugh a lot, and are thankful for everything you’ve got.

  • June 24, 2019
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    To make a difference in someone’s life you don’t have to be brilliant, rich, beautiful or perfect. You just have to care.
    ~ Mandy Hale

  • June 1, 2019
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    Stay Single Until You Find A Man Who Will Do These 7 Things.

    It’s heartbreaking  watching so many incredible women selling themselves short by getting into relationships with men who aren’t fit to walk the same ground as them.

    Often, women feel a lot of pressure to find someone to be with, so they end up settling for guys who just aren’t worth their time. It can take them years to see it, though, which can translate to whole chunks of their life going missing, wrapped up with guys who didn’t value them, didn’t respect them, and probably didn’t even really love them.

    Know your worth! Raise your expectations, and have the confidence and self-worth to stay single until you meet someone with these seven traits:

    1) He’s honest

    Honesty is the foundation that any relationship that’s going to last has to be built on. If a man isn’t honest, your relationship with him will be built on pillars of salt and sand. He should be open enough to wear his heart on his sleeve for you. Secrets and lies are a death knell for a budding relationship. You need to be able to trust your partner completely, and that means not having to worry that they’re hiding something from you. You should be able to trust him with your life. Your heart is in his hands. Total loyalty to each other and to the relationship is necessary if things are going to work out. Everybody makes mistakes, but the important thing is that he always owns up to them and tells you when he messes up.

    2) He misses you when you’re gone

    So many guys will act the part when you’re around but secretly can’t wait for you to leave so they can get back to doing the things they really want to be doing. You should wait for the man who will miss you sorely when you’re not around. Be with someone who loves you so much that having you there makes absolutely anything more fun than being alone.

    3) He’s kind and compassionate

    Kindness can be in short supply in this world. When it comes to the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you shouldn’t settle for less than someone with a compassionate, caring, understanding nature. Making love work between two people for year after year is one of the hardest yet most beautiful experiences you’ll ever go through. If you can be kind and compassionate to each other no matter what happens, you’ll always be able to cry, forgive, and make up with each other when times get hard.

    4) He’s committed

    You should wait for someone who is as committed to being with you as you are to them. Not just committed to being faithful, but also to putting in the effort everyday that is needed in order to keep the flame of passion burning throughout all of the time you’re together. Commitment is a tricky thing. You have to know you’ve met someone really special to want to spend the rest of your life with them. If the two of you are right for each other though, it should be a no brainer.

    5) He supports you

    Being in a relationship with someone is about building them up and cheering them on. It’s about celebrating their successes like they’re your own and pushing them on to achieve their dreams. Encouragement and understanding of the important things in your partner’s life are vital to the success of a relationship. Wait for a guy that’s your biggest cheerleader and supports you in everything you do.

    6) He respects you

    The man you decide you want to be with should have nothing but respect for you. It should be someone that values you and takes the time to really learn about the person you are and develops a deep understanding of you. If your man doesn’t respect you, he doesn’t really care about you or the relationship you have together. If he doesn’t respect you, he won’t be good to you or stick ny you when the chips are down and things get rough.

    7) He loves you

    This should go without saying, but the main you settle down with should love you more than he loves anyone else on this earth. It isn’t just about loving you, either, but about making you feel loved and cherished. He should be able to make you feel like the most special woman in the world in his own way.

    When you meet someone with these traits, you’ll know that the two of you can go the distance. Until then, however, you’ll just have to be patient.

    Written by Maverick, Staff writer at Lessons Learned In Life Inc. ©