To encourage you to keep going.
To remind you to be strong.

Published on December 5, 2016 in Blog1, Picture Quotes
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Why second love is the real love

Second love teaches you how to love again after you’ve been broken. It teaches you that love still exists, that you’re capable of loving again and loving harder. That you can still have faith in love no matter how much pain your first love caused you. Second love is there to pick up the pieces.

Second love gives you hope. That your fairy tale is still out there. That heartbreak is not the end of the world and that there are better things ahead. It shows you what happens when you move on, when you let go, when you try again and when you never lose hope. Second love shows you the light after the dark.

Second love is braver. It means you know how to forgive, you know how to risk getting hurt again because it’s worth it. It means that you’re prepared for the worst but you’re hoping for the best. Second love makes you stronger.

Second love makes you believe in timing. Why things didn’t work out the first time around, why you fell in love with the wrong person, why you had to get your heartbroken and why someone left you when they promised to love you. It’s here to tell you that there is always a valid reason behind your pain and that loving someone doesn’t always mean they’re right for you. Second love answers all these questions.

Second love makes sense. It’s not based on childhood fantasies or lust or infatuation. It’s not blind or reckless or toxic. It’s not based on unrealistic expectations or sheer obsession. Second love comes after you’ve learned to listen to your gut, to watch for the red flags, to pick someone because they will add value to your life and when you’ve learned to make decisions out of maturity not out of loneliness.

Second love shows you that you can be someone’s first choice and shows you what it really means to be loved.

Written by Rania Naim

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1 Comment

  1. Simbada. September 5, 2017 Reply

    Simbada never intended to hurt you Amor.de.mivida I had so many things happen to me I apologize for touching you I was trying to love you but you choose to date many men and that broke my heart and soul you block me many times but I don’t know why but I think of you so much I can’t stop because I was loyal to you thousands of women are in love with this pirate of thoughts and romance but I share with you all of my soul and most importantly my words that made the whole world fall in love with me you and me know that I made you famous Pray for me and you that our lives will be eternal life for ever with your eyes be my love of my eyes as I prepare to let you go in peace I will always love you forever in my heart your thoughts and eyes will always be mine. Simbadalism. A pirate of kindness.

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