To encourage you to keep going.
To remind you to be strong.

Published on September 5, 2014 in Picture Quotes
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It’s really painful to say goodbye to someone that you don’t want to let go of, but it’s even more painful to hold on to them if they never wanted to stay in the first place. If someone doesn’t show you the same love that you show them, and acts as if you are unimportant most of the time, this may be a big clue as to the fact that you don’t need them in your life either. The only people you truly need in your life are those who respect you and want you to be in theirs.

8 Comments

  1. samia September 6, 2014 Reply

    Yeah its really really hard to say goodbye for ever to the person u love.what one should do if that person doesnt make you priority and at the same time doesnt let u go n tries to kerp in touch? Im double minded in this situation.

  2. esh September 6, 2014 Reply

    Same thing happened with me. Then you should start ignoring them as well. It wld be hard but be selfish. Make urself priority. This person is just keeping you an option. Dont let anyone treat u as an option. There r more REAL people in this world who will just treat u the way u shld be. So dnt get stuck.

  3. Sourabh September 6, 2014 Reply

    Nice1

  4. Sharan September 6, 2014 Reply

    @Samia : I was in the same situation. Didn’t realize that I was neglecting my gf while I was focusing on my studies and career. She didn’t inform this to me clearly and hence I couldn’t make out what’s in her mind . One final day she left and then I realized my mistake . So it’s better if you inform the person that you’re feeling neglected. Sometimes unknowingly we do neglect our loved ones.

  5. alisha September 6, 2014 Reply

    Samia, you dont give in. My ex tried these tactics and is only causing the pain to be prolonged. Cut them off, block them. You are their option. People arent in denial. You know if you wanna be with someone or Not. Think about when someone liked you but you didnt like them and maybe strung them along in indecision. Its the same thing. The trash takes itself out so to speak…

  6. Deb September 6, 2014 Reply

    Samia, I think they ‘won’t let you go’ because you are of some sort of use to them. I’ve seen examples of this: Person A won’t let person B go because person A needs a captive audience for her constant bitching/bragging. Whenever person B tries to get distance from all of this toxicness, person A acts all hurt and wounded and enlists the sympathy of other family members by whatever means necessary. Person B gets confused and feels terrible and the cycle starts all over again.

  7. shani September 6, 2014 Reply

    beautiful post

  8. me September 6, 2014 Reply

    Actions speak louder than words.

    We should all remember that!

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