To encourage you to keep going.
To remind you to be strong.

Published on February 13, 2015 in Picture Quotes
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Remove toxix people out of your life. Stop maintaining relationships with people that make you feel guilty about things that you like, that make you feel awful about yourself, that put you down, that don’t support you, that are mean. You just get those people and remove them out of your life. Delete them off of Facebook, break it down easily. Because instead of just maintaining these “relationships” with people for the sake of just being polite or civil, you can be civil without having people that you don’t want in your life and you’ll be so much happier. You need to stop maintaining relationships with toxic people because it’s just not good for you and it’s not worth any of your time.
— Rachel Whitehurst

11 Comments

  1. Lorna Cawili February 13, 2015 Reply

    Thanks everyone for those who share their experience with their partners. I’ve a horrible issue with my fiancee.

  2. Natalie February 13, 2015 Reply

    Great advice always something to listen to and ready on a daily basis, we can get caught up not only in a bad way but even trying to help someone point being if it is negative to your life and isn’t doing anything to make your life positive… sorry kick them to the curb, easier said than done and it can be lonely from time to time but I would much rather be bored with out the drama and mess that some people can make

  3. justme February 13, 2015 Reply

    When you believe in a thing, believe in it all the way, implicitly and unquestionable. ~ Walt Disney

  4. Nikka February 13, 2015 Reply

    It is only now that I can let go of this guilt that has been plaguing me forever feeling obligated and indebted to people who were very toxic…my own parents. I recognized that my own well-being was more important than their expectations of me. I felt like I had to be someone else just to please them. My self-esteem was low & diminished. I did not even see my own self-worth because of the bullying I got at home. But now, I am in control of my life & take responsibility for how I feel. I let go of the shame, guilt & resentment, and even the blame. I know now that I create my own reality and I can change my life into something better for myself. You just have to believe in yourself & believe that you deserve a happy life!

  5. Priya Taj February 13, 2015 Reply

    We just have to believe in our self. N should keep Trust on Our Jesus For r happy life. N should avoid thz toxic mean people in our life. Thank you for thz great page n share thz beautiful thoughts .

  6. Natalie February 13, 2015 Reply

    Oh my gosh how perfectly said that was. I am going through the same struggles with my family members, always feeling the need to explain myself and to prove myself to them even when I’m in a great frame of mind and doing perfectly well and actually happier than I’ve ever been in my whole life. It is so truethat we control our own thoughts and feelings it’s okay to cry it’s okay to be pissed off and it’s okay to vent because in the end at the end of the day all that matters is that you did everything in your well to be the best person that you could be and honestly at the end of the day as well you have nothing to prove to anybody else nothingto explain to anybody else absolutely nothing. It will make us pull her hair out and go crazy if all we care about is what others think about us I totally have felt the same way my whole life and Not only just with my parents. But also with most of my siblings I have been singled out for my whole life and nothing is ever going to change that so I can either choose to feel pity for myself or to live a happy life that I thought that I never deserved because my self-esteem was so low. But too many lessons I’ve learned and I’ve learned them way too late in lifeis that until you make yourself happy you can’t really be happy and the only way to be happy is to live for yourself, stop letting other people put you down, stop listening to everybody else’s problems, sometimes we all need to be selfish and take a look at our own, I’ve always been soinvolved in playing the peace keeper and making everybody else who’s day is bad in a good mood and yeah being crazy and fun and humorous also makes me laugh and made a good mood but take a look at how draining that is day after day after day worrying and caring more about everyone else’s well-being and day besides her own. We seldom, when we are people pleasers, tend to waste so much energy on everybody else we need to take time for . Well said

  7. Arymamta February 14, 2015 Reply

    In my life, toxic person is my mom my sisters. Because of them I hadn’t any friends. I always loved them. I knew that they were making wrong decisions for me. But I agreed with them for love. Now I feel very bad. I feel like there isn’t any love in their hearts for me{i know the reason}. I am trying to learn to let go, to make decision for myself, to do what I like. I can’t delete them as we live under one roof but I have learnt to follow my heart. I am so happy now. 🙂

  8. Irena June 16, 2015 Reply

    What if 1 of those toxic people is Your mother?

  9. Marian June 18, 2015 Reply

    Yes, what if it is your mum?

  10. Marian June 18, 2015 Reply

    That was the 1st comment I’ve ever made. First time I reach out in my life & I get accused of asking the same question when it was someone else who asked the same question. Thanks

  11. Lisa June 25, 2017 Reply

    I have decided to choose me. He left, he still leads my emotions to think he loves me. He left me and I was thinking of going to him. Absolutely crazy and would have been a horrible choice! Love is supposed to be good,uplifting and positively enduring. I know this because I know how to love. I deserve what I give, no less. Loneliness is hard but abuse is worse. The actions of love or lack of are louder than words,therefore more pertinent and telling. I am proud of myself for coming to this place where my heart and my mind have joined forces for my greater good.

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