To encourage you to keep going.
To remind you to be strong.

Published on July 21, 2017 in Picture Quotes
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I like people who understand. The type who aren’t quick to judge. You can vent to them and labelling you will be the last thing on their mind. They don’t believe rumours because they know there are two sides to every story. They give you a chance before they judge you. They get to know who you really are, then have an opinion. I like those types of people. Real people.
~Jeremy McConnell

6 Comments

  1. ARLENE G. BANUELOS July 21, 2017 Reply

    Sometimes we feel that we are judged and not given the chance to explain….that is because the other party has the intuitive power….when you assert.utter something, it has its meaning and value..which is subject to analysis and interpretation.

  2. Steffi1970 July 21, 2017 Reply

    lovable post again, agree with Arlene ( : ) sorry Arlene, this is no purpose)..These “real” people are for me “loving” people. You never ever should ?” udge peoples your life.

  3. ARLENE G. BANUELOS July 22, 2017 Reply

    Ok Steffi1970 commenter…got your point….there are times when we are unjust and wrong to have misjudged….but again- the intuition is switched on…

    Indeed, there should be an Interpersonal Communication Skills which is objective, open and mature to have a room for improvement.

  4. Steffi1970 July 23, 2017 Reply

    yes, you are right Arlene, I´m unfurtenatly often wrong and misjudge things here, ..problems of translation, but perhaps also intelectuell problems…

  5. ARLENE G. BANUELOS July 28, 2017 Reply

    Hello commenter Steffi1970…just asking- was there an instance in your life that you feel.felt you were misjudged?

    Or have you, on your part happened to misjudged some others in your life-some dear and beloved friends you considered to have been nujustly misjudged by you because of the problem of translation or intellectual problems?

    How does it feel then? How do you feel now? Relieved?

  6. Steffi1970 July 28, 2017 Reply

    that is a difficult question. Hm, I think there were a lot of. I mean from people who do not knew me. In the age of 7-14…I was very shy outside my home and not looking very cool…so other kids, who did not know me, misjudged me. But I had enough friends, so it did not really matter. With 16 until mid of twenty, I was misjudged, because I looked pretty and I was kind of powerful….I´m not very proud of this time, because I did not much care and think of others. I could have helped more people who were misjudged and also I misjudged people I did not know….so people often thought that I´m conceited and snobbish.
    The first sight to somebody, is always difficult to judge. I do not judge anymore, before I have not talked with someone. O.k. I always have emotional feelings of symphatie, compassion or dislike, but it is not a real judgement. Some people turn out much more sympathic as I thought after knowing them closer..some people it is the opposite.
    Language problem was in the past not a big problem, because I think I´m very average, and people judge also average. But I also do not care about, what poeple think about me. I care about friends and family.

    Today it is different, because I realized, that I was misjudged by somebody who means a lot to me now. I always felt much symphatie for him, but I did not judge him at all, because I did not realize that he is close to me. I talked to him several times, and there I think were many misunderstandings because of the language…so I think he misjudged me.

    Here in internet I have also the problem with the language. I do not understand everything, so it is hard to judge. I know, that also I ´m misjudged, because of translationproblems. And then, there is often a lack of knowlegde. If people are talking about things I ´m not informed and I need to inform me before be able to comment. But this lack of knowledge can not be filled in a short time.

    How does it feel? Well, as a child, when I was misjudged, because I was shy and not very cool, I felt bad. When I realized that the person I love misjudged me I felt very bad. Do I feel better now, because I tried to explain, I regret and I try to show him my love? I do not know. I hope that he forgives me, and feel the same way. But I also know it is hard to judge me. May be he judged me already and feels that I´m under-qualified. Well this can not let me feel better.

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