To encourage you to keep going.
To remind you to be strong.

Published on September 2, 2017 in Picture Quotes, Quote of the Day
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I thought it would be painful, letting you go.

I thought I would suffer, that my heart would be anguished with the loss of you. Or worse, maybe it would stop beating altogether.

Maybe without you, I would simply cease to exist.

I thought I would become adrift, for you had been the anchor I had formed my identity upon, the compass I had relied on for my direction. I thought without you I would become lost, disoriented.

I had expected to taste salty tears as they fell upon lips that once spoke so fondly of you; that my head would lay on my pillow damp with tears for as many nights as the moon continued to kiss the stars.

But one day, I just knew.

I hadn’t expected such a feeling of relief as I cut the ropes that once shackled me to you. One instant of tremendous clarity. One instant, where I finally knew.

I no longer needed you.

I no longer needed your opinion of me, your affirmation, your approval.

I no longer needed your judgments, your criticisms, your condemnations.

I no longer needed your expectations I could never meet; your hoops too high to jump through, your goal posts that shifted with every changing breeze.

I no longer needed your blame, your excuses, your justifications.

I no longer needed your pseudo love, fraught with conditions and attached with strings.

I thought I needed you. I didn’t.

I thought it would be hard to let you go. It wasn’t.

I thought I would miss you. I don’t.

For in one instant my heart was awakened to the truth of who I am.

I am more than the lies you made believe about myself. I am more than the look of failure in your eyes when I fell short of your demands. I am more than how worthless you made me feel. I am more than the ways you tried to break me.

I am a warrior, sculpted by the hands of creation, fashioned into being by the very hands that created the oceans and the stars and the mountains and air.

I am strong, I am brave, I am wise. I am gentle of spirit with the heart of a lioness.

I am creative, passionate, sensitive, and kind. I am of open heart and open mind. I am powerful, generous, thoughtful, daring, empathetic, raw, complex, courageous, understanding, forgiving.

I am everything you are not.

I will no longer carry the shame you made me suffer under the weight of.

That shame belongs to you.

And I will no longer carry my hate for you.

For that will only ever bind me to your darkness and give you permission to destroy my light. It will allow you to stay within me, to destroy my peace, to blacken my heart with the malice that lives within you.

It will tie me to your soul-destroying bitterness, your ugliness.

It will anchor me once more to you, who tried to drown me.

Instead, I will choose to go into the world and love more fiercely, show more compassion, be more generous, offer more kindness.

I will choose to forgive. For me, not for you.

I will choose to sow what I wish to see reaped for my children’s future.

I will choose to dis-empower hate.

I will choose freedom.

I will choose love.

I will stand firm upon the unshakeable truth of who I am.

And I will soar to heights you will only ever dream of.

For I have let you go.

No longer am I held down by all I allowed you to be in my life.

I no longer need you.

I am free.

Written by Kathy Parker

( with permission)

Kathy Parker is a Warrior. Dreamer. Creator. Writer. Fighter of all that is beautiful and good. Advocator for the underdog. Truth-teller. Empath. Passionate soul. Lover of land and ocean. Coffee drinker. Gentle spirit. Sensitive soul. Wild heart. Survivor. She is a freelance writer, blogger for HuffPost Australia, and columnist for elephant journal who is currently writing her first manuscript.

Married to a farmer in the Limestone Coast of South Australia, she is also a mother to four astonishing children.

Find out more about Kathy at her blog: https://kathyparker.com.au/

4 Comments

  1. Juhi Prakash September 2, 2017 Reply

    How nice… As I was progressing,, sentence to sentence… Towards the analyzing words.. I was so convinced, rather I knew it is Kathy Parker… And to all my joys I wasn’t wrong.
    Thanks alot for yet another beautiful artwork full of true felt emotions.
    Greetings Regards.
    Urs Juhi😘
    Blessed be😇😇😇

  2. ARLENE G. BANUELOS September 23, 2017 Reply

    Such a very nice assertion of a man.woman emotionally, psychologically and spiritually ignored and abused..

    For me- not that I no longer need you…BUT I DO NOT NEED A BITTER, HARD,,HARSH AND CRUEL PERSON LIKE YOU….

    Such a waste- intelligent yet with emotional quotient you are pitiful…you do not have a grateful heart who acknowledges your value and worth as a God.made creature….I do not know how you define friendship… I do not know if you know the definition of love and respect.

  3. Araceli Acosta October 12, 2017 Reply

    As I open this site this is the first that I read 9/2 “I thought it would be painful letting you go”. I am in tears, I want this! EVERY SINGLE WORD WRITTEN I want! I desire! I want to feel strong to be able to say this., and one day I will! Very well written.
    Thank you!

  4. Robboe November 29, 2017 Reply

    Wow! Did this hit home for me. Thank you for putting into words all that I have felt, a.m feeling now & how to move to a stronger me!

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